A Japanese girl...

[Reina]

I'm 19 and my B/F is 25. And we just started a LDR.

I live in ATL. I came here about 6months ago and I met him at a church.

He was learining Japanese because he wants to work in Japan someday.

I can help him since I'm half japanese and half Filipina.

So we naturally started to hang out as friends and we went to so many places together.

 

and 3 months ago, we started to go out.

Everything was great until he made me tell him everythin that happned before we met and before we started to go out.

I told him everything...I was kind of seeing somebody else while we were hanging out as friends and we both knew we liked each other.

And I actually...had sex with the guy. I know I shouldn't have done it and I was really easy...

and When he heard about that, he got pissed but we talked about it again and agian, and got over it.

So Things have been perfect since then.

BUT he told me he got a job so he has to move to LA.

And his friend who is a Japanese guy has wanted a roomie so he decided to move there.

actually he left here 2 days ago and he now stays at his mom's place which is in san jose. He's gonna move to LA in a week.

Before he left he told me "I'm so worried about you. because you are in college and you are meeting a bunch of guys and a lot of guys are trying to get at you." but he should have nothing to worry about because I have him and I'll never want somebody else.

And he found out his another roomie will be a Japanese girl right after he got to his mom's. (The guy who is gonna be his roomie cannot speak English well, and my B/F can't really speak Japanese either. so there was miscommunication between 2 of them.)

and he called me and was like "I'm totally cool with it but are you okay??

you don't have to worry bout anyting though. Me and the girl are gonna be just friends! I care for you so much you know..." and blah blah blah....

BUT when I heard the girl is JAPANESE....I got totally scared...

Because I grew up in Japan and I know Japanese girls. And Japanese girls love the way American guys treat them. Not all of them but a lot of them do.

I saw her pictures on her myspace. and she looks like a girl in Roppongi...

I can tell a lot of her pictures were taken in clubs. and Her page looks like...she's into clubs and black culture... my B/F is black. He's 6'5 and I'm sure if she is the girl who I think she is, then she'll definately fall for him.

He told me she's been in America for like 2 years and she's 23 or something but she can't speak English because she has almost no American friends. I think she can alittle though.

She might even tell him "I LOVE YOU" since Japanese girls who don't know English don't know the difference between like and love...

My English is sometimes weird but I can speak and I've had alot of American friends because I used to live here when I was really little.

But anyway, I really am scared about what might happen in the future...

especially because I know so many bad stories about Japanese girls with American guys.

 

So what do you guys think about this situation. I'm so worried...

It may sound like I'm a super jealous G/F but I heard too many things about some Japanese girls who came to America and she looks one of those people and what she says on her website makes me worried more...she doesn't say "I love black people" or anything but the way she says things is like really ghetto...If she can speak English then I do understand but it's just really weird......

 

Anyway, I'd appreciate it if you could give me some advice and thank you for reading my long thread.

 

P.S. I'm not a racist!!! I'm half Japanese and I just know some bad stories...:'(

[MEL914]

well trust is #1 so if you cant trust him tell him. thats why he asked you in the first place if you ok with the fact that he's gonna be living with her tell him what you feel and maybe he will just move to another place!