Girl nervous to date me b/c she thinks I'm a player. Tell her I'm a virgin?

[bravesfan21]

I'm seeing this girl, but she's hesitant about seeing me b/c she thinks I'm a player. She almost didn't want to go out with me tonight b/c of that (and she's seeing another guy). I'm decent looking and pretty confident around girls, so that could be why she thinks that. I've told her I'm not a player, but she doesn't believe me.

 

Should I tell her I'm a V to convince her that I'm not a player?

 

I'm a 23 y/o virgin and she's 20. I'm afraid I'll scare her away by telling her I'm a V, but at the same time I don't want to lose her b/c she thinks I'm a player.

[Tripper]

read this thread posted today and when the issue comes up use the judgment and insight you gained from that thread

 

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=136142

[bravesfan21]

I'm sorry, but I'm not sure how that thread is relevant.

[jcster]

Absolutely not. Do not tell her that just to get a date, that's information that you can share with her further down the line when you know her better. I have a feeling it's the other guy that is keeping her from going out with you, the player thing is just an excuse. If you are patient, she might come around - but save the personal revelations for later.

[lino]

I very much doubt telling her you're a virgin will do anything to help.

[tanbark813]

No, don't do that. If she ever makes reference to you being a player just laugh it off. It's not a big deal.