Gravedigger Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 Hope to get some advice for this situation. So the thing is my gf left me back in April, which left me seriously heartbroken. She was the first girl I fell in love with since my divorce 2½ yrs back. We met up again in September but it turned out she wanted to be friends and I was still in love with her (doh!). Lately I have been meeting up with a lot of new girls. They all seem into me, but I am afraid I am still too confused about myself and the whole situation. I am seeing one of the girls on a regular basis, but I have been honest with her and explained that I am not ready for a relationship yet. She is fine with that as she is not looking for anything serious too - so we sort of just see eachother for the sex, which is great. Furthermore, this relationship is longdistance. The other two girls I met on two seperate occasions this month, we both ended up kissing, exchanging phone numbers etc. Now we are all going to the same concert on thursday in a very small place, where all of us are definetely going to meet up. The long distance girl is coming down to spend the night, and I am not going to chicken out because the other two girls are there. Basically, I don't even know if this is a problem. I have never been good at playing the game with several girls at the same time (I never thought it was a decent thing to do), but lately It seems I have had a lot of attention. This is completely new to me. Anyway, it is somehow cracking me up on thinking about this. Am I a bad person for doing this (the other girls may probably be seeing other guys too - who knows) Anyway, I would hope for a few words of advice. A part of me says I should be happy for the attention, which may help me forget my ex, another part says this is not the right way to do - another crossroad in life Have a nice weekend all
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