Lizzie60 Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 I had a call tonite from a MM that I haven't seen in maybe 4 months now... I thought he was gone for good without saying anything.. but when I asked him why he hasn't called in sooo long he said he needed to step back... He was fallen too hard for me and needed to stay away for a while. He has a son (6) and is not married but lives common-law (for about 9 years now)... He is in a sexless relationship... but he says she his best friend and he doesn't want to hurt his kid... plus he knows I do not want anyone in my life anyway. He is sooo sweet... so cute... so gentle... and my best 'oral' so far... He is planning to see me tomorrow... so I guess he knows what he's doing...
Mustang Sally Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 So what's the lesson, here, Lizzie? I think it could be that his SO should be doing a better job of keeping him happy at home. Or is it that men need sex as a way to feel loved in a relationship? i.e. he isn't getting it at home...he finds someone else and gets it (and I'm sure it's excellent quality, too ) and thus falls hard for you, even though his SO is his "best friend," and he's been with her for some years. Or is it that this guy is just a selfish ******? Nah...I doubt it's that simple. Hmmm. Maybe all of the above? Let us know how it goes!
KATANYA Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 Enjoy your reunion Lizzie and, by the way, I may have missed it on this site but I saw on another site that congratulations are in order...glad it was a safe and healthy arrival and I'm sure she is beautiful!
frannie Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 ... when I asked him why he hasn't called in sooo long he said he needed to step back... He was fallen too hard for me and needed to stay away for a while. He has a son... He is in a sexless relationship... he doesn't want to hurt his kid... But but but Lizzie... isn't that what they all say..??
Kasan Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 Lizzie-- I thought that you were cutting back on your men, as you were starting to fall hard for your young man. So, what's up with this?
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 16, 2007 Author Posted November 16, 2007 Enjoy your reunion Lizzie and, by the way, I may have missed it on this site but I saw on another site that congratulations are in order...glad it was a safe and healthy arrival and I'm sure she is beautiful! Yes she has arrived... finally... thanks.. she is beautiful, just like her mothe and grand mother.. hahaha
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 16, 2007 Author Posted November 16, 2007 But but but Lizzie... isn't that what they all say..?? some never say the L word... in fact most don't... but he's the 2nd MM that I know of... that had to stop because he was fallen hard for me... one guy (single) completely stopped seeing me cause he wanted me all for himself.. didn't want to share.. so he never came back... oh well...
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 16, 2007 Author Posted November 16, 2007 Lizzie-- I thought that you were cutting back on your men, as you were starting to fall hard for your young man. So, what's up with this? I am cutting back.. but this one was a 'regular' but I haven't seen him for months.. I thought he had just decided to stop... this one was another of my favourite... but my young man is my 'best' favourite... It's hard.. I have a few favourites..
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 17, 2007 Author Posted November 17, 2007 he called and dropped in for about 1/2 hour... he was going out with some friends. He didn't say much, we didn't talk about his feelings too much. I told him about my new 'treasure' in my life and showed him pictures. We had a drink.. we kissed (dry kisses) a few times. So I didn't put any pressure... I know he will be back but I don't know when... I guess he just wanted to see how it felt to be together and if he feels 'safe' to come back...
EnigmasMuse Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 I guess you have a very high confidence level to continue the lifestyle you persue? Anyway, hope it works out to your benefit.
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