Jmina Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 funky base player im not hurt that bigkindheart didnt seem listen to my post, i was taken back a bit. when your that low and have said you are willing ot do anything then why not try it. what i saw was a lot of good advice from everybody, not just me, and a solem depressed reply from bigkindhearsoul. what can you do? shrug your shoulders and move on to the next post of interest. sorry to come across nasty bigkindheartsoul i think your kidding yourself that you think your listening. "I have sometime to myself this weekend and will do some writing and write about all that is good about me and my life right now instead of feeling the worse. Gonna eat some healthy food, go down the gym like all weekends and go shopping" i will believe that if i hear anything about how it went after and hear that it helped you. how wonderful when you achieve this. sorry my post didnt help! but i bet it helped someone. the only thing bigkindheart soul is that your heart is so big and kind to everyone you truly are kind and have a big heart. the only person missing out on this is yourself. i would really love to hear about your weekend and hear how you go. and dont stop posting even if you are depressed as it gets. jmina
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 16, 2007 Author Posted November 16, 2007 funky base player im not hurt that bigkindheart didnt seem listen to my post, i was taken back a bit. when your that low and have said you are willing ot do anything then why not try it. what i saw was a lot of good advice from everybody, not just me, and a solem depressed reply from bigkindhearsoul. what can you do? shrug your shoulders and move on to the next post of interest. sorry to come across nasty bigkindheartsoul i think your kidding yourself that you think your listening. "I have sometime to myself this weekend and will do some writing and write about all that is good about me and my life right now instead of feeling the worse. Gonna eat some healthy food, go down the gym like all weekends and go shopping" i will believe that if i hear anything about how it went after and hear that it helped you. how wonderful when you achieve this. sorry my post didnt help! but i bet it helped someone. the only thing bigkindheart soul is that your heart is so big and kind to everyone you truly are kind and have a big heart. the only person missing out on this is yourself. i would really love to hear about your weekend and hear how you go. and dont stop posting even if you are depressed as it gets. jmina I did read them, although please understand my head is still a little cloudy and having trouble undertsanding all what was written. Also for me it takes me a day or so to recover from such lows. Believe me, I will as I usually do come back and read, probably in peace offline and read and reread what is said. That said, everyone has different issues and different timescales to how they recover, how they deal. I cannot go by yourtime scales only my own however do take on bored each piece of advice said. Last night I needed to "talk" I needed to be around people, I had no one in RL to do this with so came to speak with like minded friends on here who suffering similar things. But yes I need help, professional and that of people such as yourself and then apdapt this to my situation. I probably am not making much sense to you guys as its hard to write clearly what is going on inside but I am not one who just disregards what people say on here, to just carry on with what I thought anyway. That is not how I am. For me it is indeed a long path, I am dealing not just with the ex stuff but depression and also some very horrid things that happened in my childhood that have resurafced recently because i never grieved properly when these things happen, I was a child and new fck all about grieving and healing then. I was abused in my teens, beaten to a pulp but a stepfather who liked boys so I was never good enough, hence why keeping myself esteem up is hard, because I never feel good enough. So have alot I have been working on and need to work on. Can I ask that we close off this thread and just use the other one, as it seems unfair to others to have two posts going. Last night it was out of desperation for help, now its about advice for going forward. Please just cut and paste any comments from here onto a new post in the other thread. Thank you, xxxxxx
Jmina Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 who is Ju?? "You seem hurt that she has not listened to you, and is not changing her 'parth' she has to do what is right for her, whatever that may be" where you not talking to me? confusion! okay funkybaseplayer i guess it doesnt matter anyway.
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