FREE.DOM Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 hey everybody! i'm 18 and there's this guy thats almost 20 years older than me. i really want him, he's so smart and gentle and so HOT. lots of people tell me that he's completely out of my league because i can be his daughter!! he's single by the way. i'm to some level ready to take the risk... i'd rather regret something i did than regreting not taking action. so can you please tell me what might attract a guy this old to me? i'm pretty, but i know it's not all about looks... so yeah help me out here!! LOL
Timberlane Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Hmmm. So he is pushing 40? Er. Well, being 40 myself I can share my thoughts on the matter. First of all, it's always flattering when an attractive, smart woman likes you. That is a given. So even though there is a big age difference that will hold true anyway. Since you are so young it isn't necessarily a big deal to avoid such a mismatched age thing. Now for the guy, I think it's pretty silly to date someone 20 years younger. I can really only go ten years younger and really prefer someone my age or close to. It's just worked out better in the past. That said, do be careful if you do this and keep in mind that things probably won't last. Practically no one is going to be looking at this thing from the outside with all smiles and high fives.
Author FREE.DOM Posted November 15, 2007 Author Posted November 15, 2007 i think you're right, like he has so many more experiences, he travelled to places and learnt so much. he definitely noticed me, but he doesnt know me this much. i think he has his suspesions that i like him. i still want him though...
Timberlane Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 OH! You just have a crush on him. Well, whew. Now that is perfectly fine and dandy. Crush on! 1
Author FREE.DOM Posted November 15, 2007 Author Posted November 15, 2007 there's nothing i can do to get him?
Timberlane Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 there's nothing i can do to get him? Now look. There's no reason to jump to that. If you want to flirt with him, then feel free. But keep in mind that he might really recognize what is going on and avoid getting in deeper. He may already have had experience with this sort of age difference, too. You could even ask him. For now I would just be happy with your crush and just enjoy talking to the guy. But do get out and meet other guys more your age. They need someone nice to have a crush on them, too.
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