SourLemonPie Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 The guy i'm crushed for was cheated by his ex gf. They had been together for five years when he found out. When we met, (last year), he was recovering, and well, we got along, people saw sparks between us, but i wasn't interested. Till circunstances made me realize how good this guy was to me. I had an issue, and well, he was very supportive and was always there for me. And well, a new feeling started to blossom. Well. Six months after the breakup, he started to date a new girl. They were together for six months till she finally dumped him, leaving him pretty down. The girl was ... i honestly don't know why they were together. But she treated him pretty badly. We talked about my feelings for him, and he said he wasn't interested to me in that way and that he liked me as a friend and stuff. He even told me he needed some time off to "know himself". Now, two months after his breakup with the girl... he's dating his last ex's best friend. A girl who looks a lot like the ex, same haircut, clothes, etc. Damn.
someone2 Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Start dating other people, and make sure he meets every one of them. If he doesn't ask you out after he breaks up with his current gf, just ignore him forever
jcster Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 hmmmm.... His ex cheats on him, his new ex girlfriend treats him badly and dumps him, and then he moves on to the best friend of the cruddy ex. I think you should take this as a compliment. The guy obviously feels the need to be mistreated - you just aren't mean enough for him.
Author SourLemonPie Posted November 14, 2007 Author Posted November 14, 2007 It's what people says to me. It's like, "you're cool, sweet, funny, share interests with him..... " still, he's blind and dates people who has nothing to do with him. I think he's funny, makes me laugh, yes we do have lots in common, and he's adorable. In the other hand.... i don't like doormats. But this guy is just.... too cool. I don't know. Im insane. Lol. My best friend thinks he's an awesome friend but she's glad nothing happened between us cause "he can't make any woman happy". Start dating other people, and make sure he meets every one of them. If he doesn't ask you out after he breaks up with his current gf, just ignore him forever Ha! You're not the first one giving me this advice.
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