slickeagle Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Thanks in advance to anyone that reads this. Well, this past semester I transferred to a new college. In one of my classes is a girl that I had several classes with at my old community college, but we only spoke to eachother a couple times then. Anyways, on the first day of classes at this new school I noticed her and then pretty quickly she took the initiative to say hi and ask how I was doing. Well, we wound up having a couple of classes together and sit next to eachother in both. We talk a good deal and it's just been nice overall to have a friend in class. We both commute, so it's a billion times harder to make friends when that's the case - so I'm sure she doesn't have many other college friends either. On top of that, she had just moved her from out of state a couple of years ago. Anyways, I have a dilemma. She's absolutely beautiful and I'd love nothing more than to ask her out on a date. The only problem is that I have no idea if she has a boyfriend or not. I'm assuming she does, seeing as that a thousand guys probably hit on her every day due to her looks, but have yet to get any hard evidence. Any idea what the best way would be to find out this information? The only reason I'm even attempting to go after a girl that I'd normally consider out of my league is truthfully because of her personality. She has the same major as me and lives pretty close, so we have a bunch in common. She's not pretentious at all and is extremely down to earth. I've noticed pretty good eye contact being made already and some positive body language, but that stuff could all just be wishful thinking. Any advice on how I could find out if she has a boyfriend? Or, even if I don't find that out initially, what would be the best way to initiate some sort of contact between us outside of school? Thanks again for reading.
Valley Lilly Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 You can try saying hi to her first.... do you talk to her?
Author slickeagle Posted November 14, 2007 Author Posted November 14, 2007 Just ask her? I usually just go straight for the jugular when it comes to asking girls out, but I think this time I'm a bit wary incase things were to get awkward afterwards in any way. I've dated people while I've had classes with them before and that's no fun. So I was definitely looking to make a move in a few weeks when it's closer to the end of the semester. You can try saying hi to her first.... do you talk to her? Yeah, we talk during every class we have together. But we're not good enough friends to the point where they're ten minute-long flowing conversations about anything and everything.
brothermartin Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 My advice: Never ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. That reveals two things about you. 1. That you're intrested, and 2. That you're afraid of rejection. You can let her know you're intrested without actually saying it one way, go for the jugular mna! If you guys are'nt really close and she hasnt mentioned a boyfriend, what have you got to lose?
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