codergrrl Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 I just found out 2 days ago that my ex got married. To quote "I eloped, it was sudden". I thought that we were going to find our way back to each other but he seemed to be in a rush to be married to SOMEONE. Obviously I wasn't good enough and that makes me feel even more depressed. Any advice on how to get past this? I am really hurting.
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Dont say that you werent good enough for him just say he was not good enough for you. Never rest on the thought of getting back toguether with someone after you break up, chances are once you break up you'll never go back and if "HE" comes back you wont be interterested in him anymore. in this case since hes married he will probably just want to be friends.. dont do it! because it seems like you still like this guy and if your arround him or even have him as a friend your going to suffer seeing him with his wife. just tell him to have a nice life take care and you occupy your time on something useful...dont lay in your bed all day deppressed watching soaps and listening to sad music...it will make you sick go out have fun be single for a while and date when your ready. good luck b safe...
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