humiliation and realization

[Virgo1982]

You guys aren't taking into account that the OW was a good friend of the W's... they had a close relationship with each other, regardless of the H. It's different, going over to her house, on the possible remnants of their friendship, as opposed to showing up at a complete stranger's house.

 

And chances are, if the OW has AIDS, the W has already got it anyway... from their "common denominator".

 

He can't use protection? It's not safe to bite anyone.

 

Anyway, I am quite sure OW/xBF knew the OP was not over for tea and krumpets.

[OpenBook]

Please, she was probably glad to get the attention. Her actions reflect that. If she felt threatened, she would not have been trying to get her "repeat after me."

 

As another member said, the OP realizes that it was a mistake now. It helped her realize that she was worth too much to put herself through the stress. I don't think she should regret it. As in, I don't think she should dwell on it and wish she could erase it.

 

I don't know... that was a pretty traumatic experience, especially with a (former) good friend who suddenly revealed the ugliness in her soul, and the terrible rivalry she felt toward Jennee. I think I'd be more upset about that than I would about my H. But that's just me... At this point in my life, I value my GF's more than men.

[marlena]

At this point in my life, I value my GF's more than men.

 

I feel the same way. My friends and family, of course! I remember many, many years ago when there were rumours that a good firend of mine was having an affair with my then husband. I vividly recall being more upset at her betrayal of our friendship more than anything else.

[jennee]

thank you to everyone that supported me in their answers and saw the power of my realization.

 

I can't believe some of you thought I deserved what I got. I deserved to be physically humiliated by the woman that slept with my husband? what's wrong with you?