kween321 Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 I started seeing this guy a month ago. I like him A LOT and I'm pretty damn sure he feels the same but he's really shy when it comes to sex and things of the like... In saying that though, we have gone all the way just recently, however we had been drinking. And the day before we had sex, we fooled around a bit but we were on ecstasy. I would have done this guy a while ago without being under the influence of anything at all, but whenever I tried anything he'd kind of just get all shy and not respond or touch me back even though he had a raging boner. Lol.... Anyway. We haven't done anything since we had sex and now I'm worried that he's only gonna do stuff with me if he's drunk or high. I've tried taking things slow and being gentle and trying to make him feel as comfortable as possible but he just wont budge! It's so frustrating! Also, he's only been with one other girl in the past 5 years (the one he lost his virginity to). But he's 22 for christs sake.... Please can anyone give me advice on what to do here......... TIA
Ocean-Blue Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Maybe he's not ready to have sex with you yet. It's been a month, right? He lost his virginity to a girl he was with for 5 years...perhaps he likes to take things slow? You won't know until you ask him.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Have you tried 'talking' sex? Maybe getting him hot (or by rubbing him) will push him to the point of "got to have it." Either that, or wait until he's mentally and physically ready. In the meantime, get the big vibrator out and buy the industrial pack of batteries......
Tony T Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Have a little patience. Some guys just take their time moving in the direction of sex. One day, you will pray that more men took it slowly. This guy could have gone for you bod right away, like a player, and you would have never seen him again. Relationships that are keepers, long termers, move more slowly. There are lots of other ways you can satisfy your sex drive until he comes around. Don't give him months and months but if you really like him don't pressure him. Oddly, it's usually the guy wanting to know why the girl doesn't move a bit faster. haha!
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