Aussie65 Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 OK,my relationship with my boyfriend has been rough at times but love has got us through it until three weeks ago when he told me he wanted to take on a job in the next State,three hours drive away....it was a job hes always wanted. Two weeks ago he moved and I have been a mess ever since.His phone calls to other women during the relationship got to me,often causing a lot of problems for us.He saw no problem with calling them however,i did when he talked about personal things with one and another he never even told I existed. He moved and came up last weekend for the whole weekend...he was forever telling me he loved and missed me and wants me to move down to be with him BUT...my daughter is finishing he high school next year and I cannot move so now I am missing him more then ever and finding it hard to cope.I feel he did this for his own selfish reasons and now I am left with rent,bills etc on my own.I do work full time but my income does not cover the bills and I am slowly sinking. I want to be with my man but I love my daughter and she needs me but surviving with the high rent here is crippling me!I am now caught between deciding on moving to him and sending her to her Father to live which is what I did not want but still cannot feel my boyfriends selfishness did this. If I move to him at least he will pay half the bills,if I don't I will slowly sink...what do I do?I love him and want to be with him...im over living in the city and have been wanting to move for a long time....he was paying half the bills,now he is paying nothing....I am facing a brick wall right now and wondering what to do....any advice?
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