loquaciousl Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 My Bf and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We dated 5 months. We'd been arguing a lot over stupid things and towards the end he was a lot more distant from me. He smokes a lot of weed and lives with his folks (hes 34) I can be emotionally clingy at times. But nonetheless we felt at ease around each other and had a great time together.....I was in love with him. 3 weeks ago I came home to an EMAIL saying he wasn't in love anymore with me and that his feelings had changed months ago. He also said that he doesn't see me as his one. After a few painful conversations, we stopped talking. I deleted him as my friend on m.s. I get a nasty text from him saying, "It sucks you're so negative about this. If it's so easy for you to be this way, you never loved me in the first place." I was so mad, I emailed him back and laid into him. I wish I hadn't because that didn't merit a response. Yet, I miss him. I don't want to be with him though, because I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be with me and doesn't have his life in order. Yet, everyday I feel a hole and a sadness. I am having trouble letting go but I know no contact is healthiest for me. I can't sleep, though, and I am depressed. I am trying to work out and be with friends but I'm just so sad. Please help me and tell me what the next step is...I feel heartbroken.
heggs Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Hey lovely, arh this blows my gf broke it off with me today after telling me she dosent love me and dosent think im the right one for. just hold in there keep ya head up i sad and drifting but itll get better
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