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I never meant to be agressive or overly defensive, but do understand that I appreciate all opinions and advice. I am just not as ready as some of you would like me to be, to hear some of the advice.

 

This is a difficult situation for me, please do believe that. I am not trying to make it out that my affair is a wonderful thing. Obviously I am here because I am tangled in a web and do not know who to talk to about this. I thought by coming here, I'd here other OW's stories and see how their affairs came out.

 

I will say, though, that some of you go a bit over the edge if I do not like what you have to say. Do understand, though, that I do read what you write, and it's in the back of my head and in my thoughts, and when I'm ready to hear (or in this case, see) what that advice is, I will take it and use it wisely. Until then, please do not be offended if I am not taking your advice. Most of you either are or have been in my shoes, so I am sure you understand that this is difficult and what I am dealing with.

 

I just wanted to say that. Thanks.

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I never meant to be agressive or overly defensive, but do understand that I appreciate all opinions and advice. I am just not as ready as some of you would like me to be, to hear some of the advice.

 

This is a difficult situation for me, please do believe that. I am not trying to make it out that my affair is a wonderful thing. Obviously I am here because I am tangled in a web and do not know who to talk to about this. I thought by coming here, I'd here other OW's stories and see how their affairs came out.

 

I will say, though, that some of you go a bit over the edge if I do not like what you have to say. Do understand, though, that I do read what you write, and it's in the back of my head and in my thoughts, and when I'm ready to hear (or in this case, see) what that advice is, I will take it and use it wisely. Until then, please do not be offended if I am not taking your advice. Most of you either are or have been in my shoes, so I am sure you understand that this is difficult and what I am dealing with.

 

I just wanted to say that. Thanks.

 

 

I respect you for apologizing and I hope everyone else feels the same way. Good luck!

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