KATANYA Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Well, I'm sitting here tonight reading the posts on LS and my phone rings (like 5 min ago).......its my exMM's number so I answered and its his W. She asked if I was going to the gym tomorrow morning (my usual routine before work).....told me exMM told her I would probably be going. I said I didn't know yet and she asked if I would pick her up and then she says.."please don't say no, I really need to talk to you!". ExMM is not home tonight so I'm not sure if he knows about this call or not. For the last week or so things have been very good (meaning normal - exMM is being decent (no foolish talk, no coaxing me and W to be 'friends' etc., no contact with W, etc.-everything seemed to be on their way back to being 'normal'). Not sure what to think right now or what to do? Told her I would call her in the am if I'm going (she already KNOWS I'm going - its routine for me and exMM told her this!). She just thanked me, asked that I please do call her and hung up! Really thinking I should NOT do this tomorrow but it will look bad if I keep avoiding her as well. The A is over, can't imagine what she wants to 'talk' about now after all this time.........and don't know how to get out of this either. Geez, it was easier to avoid her when the A was going on than it is now --- I guess I will meet her and let her have her say, at least I will finally know what this is all about!
Letranger Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Well, you are reaping what you sowed! It maybe be good news somehow. Who knows! Find out and let us I know! I am curious!
Gwyneth Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Does she know you had an affair with her husband? If I were you, I'd make sure at least one person knew who I was picking up, what time, and where you are going, just in case this lady has some kind of malicious task in mind. Be safe and good luck
NoIDidn't Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 I think that she feels that she can trust you now and wants to let you in on a concern of hers. I think she either suspects that you or someone has been having an A with her H, and that is what she wants to talk about. Hopefully she just wants to talk about something else. Maybe she wants your advice on something to surprise her H with. Wouldn't that be a hoot?!
Author KATANYA Posted November 14, 2007 Author Posted November 14, 2007 Maybe she wants your advice on something to surprise her H with. Wouldn't that be a hoot?! OMG......perhaps under different circumstances I would laugh at this. I hope she's not looking for advice on ANYTHING to do with her H. Suggestions for a surprise? Why do the words 'divorce papers' keep jumping to mind! (no, not because I want him for myself ---just because I have no idea why she's stayed as long as she has). I do think I'll just tell her to meet me there (she has her own vehicle so not sure why she needs a drive to begin with)- really don't want to 'drive' her anywhere. Not worried about her doing anything crazy (thanks for your concern though Gwyneth), just think it would be awkward depending on what she wants to 'talk' about.
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