itslucylucylucy Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Awhile back, when I was kinda tipsy, I flirted with this guy whom has never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. he def. flirted back with me. Everyone there that night was like “im pretty sure he likes you” (maybe because ive had a lot of guys like me or he doesn’t usually even flirt while drunk) He wasnt really drunk- he does this thing where he has 2 drinks and "pretends" to be drunk. Someone there told him I like him but whatever he is dense. he left me a voicemail when I randomly left saying "hope you got back to your room OK ill IM you tomorrow" and he did right away the next morning and sounded concerned about my hangover and talked alot. he was sober while doing this, he also didnt tell his friends he did that. Hes never called me before or imed me.They never pressured him into doing this. People there that night meddled in the situation though I never told them to. They nudged him on told him I like him etc. He told his friends (including his bff) he doesn’t like me, the friend who told me “hey he said he doesn’t like you. He wants to be friends” said he was sorry for meddling cause he said it made everything worse. He said he didn’t mean anything by messages. The day my crush found out “I knew” he said hi randomly a few times, w/e doesn’t mean anything. I guess doesn’t want me to be hurt? But the thing is we weren’t close before. he still says hi to me all the time but never does go out of his way to talk to me otherwise, though he never did that before anyway. it doesnt really matter now cause I hardly see him anymore. A lot of times I don’t say hi outloud back because I am often with other people talking to them and cause im feeling a bit scorned still, Im usually OK but when he gets around me I feel like im having a stroke? while i havent been rude like ignoring him completely, im def. not as warm as i use to be He asked my good friend why he doesnt get a response back? Im surprised cause hes usually clueless about everything and has ignored me. so im asking is he just worried he hurt my feelings or could he like me? I dont know- ive never liked someone so inexperienced before, usually i go for guys that are straightforward.
clueless24 Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 lucylucylucy, maybe he does like you but is too shy to admit it to is bff or maybe his bff is saying that to help his friend play it cool. inexperienced guys are really hard to understand =( maybe he's interested but is afraid of being rejected or else he would not be concerned of why you are ignoring him. try befriending him and see how he acts around you when he has a chance to be close. i had an inexperienced guy liked me and i liked him too, but the way that he pursued me was not efficient in my opinion. he would show that he cared and then pulled back as if i was not worth his time. i even took a chance to do nice things for him but he did not respond in the way that i had liked him to, so i moved on sice i thought he was not interested. Well, we got a chance to become friends and i realized that he did like me a lot but was intimidated by me (he thought i was too pretty for him, silly ) and by other guys that i was friends with. inexperienced guys tend to over analyze stuff and try too hard and then once they become a little bit insecure, they withdraw and become completely cold. they're silly . maybe he is feeling the same way about you and is afraid to act on it knowing that you have more experience than he does and might be thinking he can't meet your expectations. hopefully that helps and goodluck.
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