Trialbyfire Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Is that a sopranos take on men vs women That's one of the few shows I used to watch sometimes. In every episode, there were at least one, if not more dead bodies. Yeah, yeah, yeah. One of the most romantic things my ex-wife did for me was to give me a nice card after we were dating for a few months. She just wanted to tell me how special I was to her and how I made her feel happy. No occasion, just out of the blue. I still have the card, actually. I also would love it when a girlfriend bought me a present for no reason. Simpler things were like making dinner together and having it on the patio by candle light. We used to do that a lot. Sundays might be sex in the morning until we got hungry and went out for breakfast. Now that's romance. Be honest. If it doesn't include sex, a simple romantic gesture isn't very interesting...
Lizzie60 Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 to admit that I'm not the most romantic woman so... I am not necessarily looking for a romantic type... Cut the crap...and get down to business... LOL... I will take someone sennnssuuualllll over a boring romantic anytime...
nicki Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 :lmao: I'm buying a rose for my hair! Lizzie, I agree. Give me a sensual man who is also thoughtful. That is romantic. I've never met a guy who asked me to be more romantic. I always thought it was a girl thing, too. I usually just make sure my guy knows I'm hot for him and compliment him often. And I take care of him when he sick, and pick up his favorite candy bar when I'm at the store. Stuff like that. And honestly, if he feels I'm not giving him enough attention, a surprise attack blow job while he is working at his desk always makes him feel special. Maybe the OP's guy just wants to know the OP cares about him and he wants it shown in little ways that mean something to him. Buy the book, Love Languages. Or just google it. It talks about the five different love languages we have. A real relationship helper. Oh, I love the idea of taking off the underwear in the restaurant restroom and handing it to him when you get back to the table. Once, I took off my underwear AT the table and handed it to him under the table, with a sly smile on my face....I'd recommend trying that, too. Seems like sex does equal romance for most guys. I think it's how they feel close to us....not all guys, but most. So, guys, what other ideas do you have?
gonetildecember Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Yeah, yeah, yeah. One of the most romantic things my ex-wife did for me was to give me a nice card after we were dating for a few months. She just wanted to tell me how special I was to her and how I made her feel happy. No occasion, just out of the blue. I still have the card, actually. I also would love it when a girlfriend bought me a present for no reason. Simpler things were like making dinner together and having it on the patio by candle light. We used to do that a lot. Sundays might be sex in the morning until we got hungry and went out for breakfast. Now that's romance. Actually come to think of it, I gave my bf a card right before we became exclusive... just telling him how much fun I was having with him and that I looked forward to more good times, no matter what the situation sorta thing... He always brings it up though, he seemed to really have liked it. He even asked me once where I found such a nice card, because he was telling a friend about it and they wanted to find one by the same company or whatever... so i guess guys can be romanced by things other than sex. Your evening of all about him is a nice gesture. My guy loved it when I did the whole dinner, movie, seduction thing... although we barely made it through the movie.
Timberlane Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 to admit that I'm not the most romantic woman so... I am not necessarily looking for a romantic type... Cut the crap...and get down to business... LOL... I will take someone sennnssuuualllll over a boring romantic anytime... I think you and I would click, but what you are talking about is a sexualist, not a sensualist. A sensualist likes a lot of prolonged caressing, touching, and dainty teasing. The foreplay is pleasurable alone, whether or not it leads to sex or an orgasm. A sexualist is goal oriented, and it is definitely about the orgasm(s). They are more interested in getting down to business. That feather? Pfffft. We are done with that already. What's next??? But the romance stuff is still good.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 A blowjob while wearing a rose in your hair would pretty much get me in a romantic mood. I love the sheer honesty in this comment......
amaysngrace Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 My BF is romantic. Not a boring romantic though. Anything but boring. Things I've done for him that he loved were: planted flowers in his garden when he was at work cooked him dinner from time to time and brought it to his house give him cards or letters from my heart just because give him a back/body rub (he really likes that) painted a picture of him from my memory pick him up stuff at the grocery store w/o him asking call him when he's working to tell him i love him get a toy for his dog once in a while go to watch him surf when he doesn't expect me to show up put everything he gave me in its own special place kinda like on display compliment him and thank him often and let him know how much he means Although I'm thinking of trying out that rose idea. I have one on my kitchen table in the arrangement that he sent me the other day.
Pyro Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 In my experience the best way to show romance and warmth is to be nurturing. Guys don't want flowers and candy, but one guy kept talking about his favorite childhood peanut butter and jelly sandwich, so I brought him all the fixings, Another was very busy and needed tennis shoes, so i got him a couple of pairs. I know this guy is a major chef, so cooking for him would be HARD, but thats another way. Just little sweet nurturing things paired with a romantic card or note is my best guess ! You guess well. Add some bump bump bump to all that and you are golden.
amaysngrace Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Add some bump bump bump to all that and you are golden. Here we call it boom boom.
Pyro Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Here we call it boom boom. Call it what you will, but its all in the same and its all good.:bunny:
amaysngrace Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Call it what you will, but its all in the same and its all good.:bunny: Except for this week for me... ...but at least I'm not pregnant!
Pyro Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Except for this week for me... ...but at least I'm not pregnant! Hopefully he keeps his distance from you this week.
amaysngrace Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Hopefully he keeps his distance from you this week. Yeah of course we don't do it like that. Nothing romantic about slaughtered sex. But my kisses get him off and him getting off gets me off so there ya go!
Pyro Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Yeah of course we don't do it like that. Nothing romantic about slaughtered sex. But my kisses get him off and him getting off gets me off so there ya go! I was referring to the part about you being a b*tch for a week.
amaysngrace Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 I was referring to the part about you being a b*tch for a week. Oh yeah, that's right... ...f*ck you...
Pyro Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Oh yeah, that's right... ...f*ck you... :laugh:
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