JustinCass01 Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Ok we have been going out for about a year. four days ago she had sex with a guy and blah blah i forgave her. then today she wanted to go over to one of her guy freinds house to go in a hot tub. i said thats really messed up and i dont want you going cause you just cheated on me. she said what are you going to do stop me? then i was like i have to ****ing go. then we were texting and i said i miss the stuff we used to do. she said things change for a reason and i am scared of the future. then i said do you honestly not want to fix the relationship and she said honestly no. i was like thats so ****ed up. then i said well do you want to break up? she said she didnt know. but i think just conserdering it after all i did for her is so jacked up.
Cobra_X30 Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Ok we have been going out for about a year. four days ago she had sex with a guy and blah blah i forgave her. then today she wanted to go over to one of her guy freinds house to go in a hot tub. i said thats really messed up and i dont want you going cause you just cheated on me. she said what are you going to do stop me? then i was like i have to ****ing go. then we were texting and i said i miss the stuff we used to do. she said things change for a reason and i am scared of the future. then i said do you honestly not want to fix the relationship and she said honestly no. i was like thats so ****ed up. then i said well do you want to break up? she said she didnt know. but i think just conserdering it after all i did for her is so jacked up. Why are you giving her the option? She wants to dump you, but doesnt have the guts to do it. Just tell her the truth, that this LDR has been one of the worst experiences of your life. That if she wants to whore it up... thats fine. She can do that without you. Tell her that you've lost pretty much all respect for her, and that you would appreciate it if she not contact you for some time.
gonetildecember Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 I would be the one to end it. SHE JUST CHEATED ON YOU. and now after you forgave her and took her back a few days later she can justify going to a males house to go into a HOT TUB with him. Her priorities are seriously messed in my opinion and she should be the one trying to make sure YOU are comfortable since she just cheated...like days later she thinks this is ok. she basically told u she doesn't want to fix things. You're 16, i'm sure you've got a lot going for you. end it, and show her she can't walk all over you.
dancinggal Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Justin, I'm sorry this is happening, but she is obviously not cut out for long distance. It is really tough, and people twice your age fail at it miserably. Its time to let go of her, and find someone who is more worthwhile of your time.
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