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After almost 4 months, i heard from my ex today, wishing me a happy birthday. I replied to her e-mail in kind. I also let her know that i missed our good times tremendously.

If that weren't enough, i aslo got a b-day email from an ex of 10 years ago. That one made me somewhat happy though)

Anyone else go through a sad birthday?

 

Scorp

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happy bday! Mine is next month. 3 days before Christmas. Gonna be a double whammy for me!

 

Hey when it rains it pours right? 2 ex's contacting you at once.

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Yes I did hunny terrible b'day this year, dumped while ill three days before mine in a really cruel way, I spent mine trying not to cry and just getting through the day and surviving.

 

But look at it this way, your next birthday will be so much better than this one.

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Thank you Nice & Bigheart.

At least it's nice to know i'm not completely alone with this place.

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Hey bro!

 

Happy Birthday man, I'm sorry to hear you are sad. My birthday is coming up at the end of the year but I'm fairly certain I'll hear nothing. Stay with it Scorp, your posts have always made me smile!!

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Happy birthday- these are never easy days.

 

The first b-day after my break-up, I started therapy. It wasn't a good day. I cried a lot.

 

I try to remind myself of things like "What would he have done anyways for my bday?" The least possible, that's what. I've actually found HIS b-day to be harder, because I used to put in a ton of effort, and now I just get to wonder what others are doing for him. :(

 

Do something YOU want to do today, no matter what. Horrible movies and pints of ice cream are always a nice back-up. :o

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mine is this saturday,,, not looking forward to it.:sick:

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After almost 4 months, i heard from my ex today, wishing me a happy birthday. I replied to her e-mail in kind. I also let her know that i missed our good times tremendously.

If that weren't enough, i aslo got a b-day email from an ex of 10 years ago. That one made me somewhat happy though)

Anyone else go through a sad birthday?

 

Scorp

 

Happy Birthday Scorp!

 

My birthday last month was sad for me. My ex disappeared for 2 mths and decided to reappear on my birthday. It messed me up to hear from him after all that time.. I even cried the night of my bday :o

 

Hang in there, remember today is your day!!

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how rude of me, tut tut!

 

happy birthday scorp:o

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my mom died less than a month before my 38th birthday, which royally sucked, because we had this little tradition leading up to our birthdays that was always fun ...

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Hey Scorp,

 

Happy birthday!

 

Mine was last month and my ex was nice enough to call me at 7:30 am the day after.

 

I dunno what woulda been worse, that or not getting a birthday call at all.

 

I shure as hell remembered hers. I sent her a nice bouquet of her favorite flowers with a message that went something like Happy birthday... enjoy your day. No lovey dovey stuff.

 

I look at events like this as each being a milestone. birthdays,holidays,aniverseries, annual trips etc. once you get through a full year of these events then the next will be easier esp. if you can get yourself someone new to share new moments with:).

 

Hang in there bud. Enjoy your day;).

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Hi Scorpio, bigheart is right. Next year's birthday will be better. I remember my ex gf broke up with me one month before mine, one month after I celebrated hers with a trip, flowers, special dinner... Mine was bad last year. I celebrated it with my close friends and family one day before, I cried all day on my birthday. But this years was so much better. Hang in there. This site is wonderful.

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Thank you so much everyone!

My words cannot express how you've made me feel.

You have all helped put a smile on my face today )

Scorp

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Hey bro,

 

Up up up up up remember!

 

Matt

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Hey bro,

 

Up up up up up remember!

 

Matt

 

Matty,

yes i do remember,

Thanks brother!

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Happy Birthday! Hope you had a cake :)

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yeah, i hear you. mine is the saturday after thanksgiving (24th). the past three years, she's made it a special day for me. getting me sweet gifts, a cake and just making sure that i was taken care of...this year will be hard. i think i'll hear from her but i'm just not sure how i'm going to take it. this holiday season is going to be really difficult!

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My B'day was November 3rd and no wishes from my W...That's a sign that the next one should be special indeed!

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well, happy belated bday nitelife.

 

yeah, it's just around the corner now. i'm actually starting to have dreams. playing out thanskgiving and my day in my dreams is so hard. i'm waking wondering how in the heck am i going to take the real thing.

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