BwsLnc07 Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Alright well here is my situation me and my ex-girlfriend of a lil over 4 months have just broken up, last friday to be exact. Everything was going perfect everyone thought we were the perfect couple. Well we had been fighting about stupid lil things for the last month but we made things work and didn't fight for two weeks until last friday. I went to help her with something and I could tell she was already stressed out about somethin and she flipped out on me because I wasn't helping but I had just got there so I was just there to be with her for the moment. She then pulls this you don't listen to me I told you you have to help if you came and says I don't take her seriously. So I left and asked her to come out and talk to me. So she basically starts breaking down saying she can't do this anymore. That she loves me more than anything and doesn't want to be with anybody else and that she will never stop loving me. She just can't do the fights anymore and broke it off. She said she wants to be with me just can't. I was crushed and she said it was killin her as well. Well that night I went somewhere where one of her good friends works and she said that she had called her and was talkin about me about how much she missed me and that she wanted to call me but she had to stay strong. I did call her sunday just to see how she was and that I do care for her and loved her very calmly just to let her know I do still care. But today I get a message saying how she wants to exchange clothes and that she is really pissed at me because I told one of my close friends something about her not bad at all but he went off and told her sister and her sister than told her that I had been talking about her so now she is pissed. So I called her and apoligized for w.e she had heard and told her just to call me to meet up somewhere so I can give her back her stuff. Idk what to think I just feel my situation is hopeless. I know its only been four days but IDK. I just could use some advice on what the best way to win her back would be and is my situation hopeless?????
sedgwick Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Honestly, I think she sounds far too high-maintenance. At four months, you should still be in the honeymoon stage!
Author BwsLnc07 Posted November 14, 2007 Author Posted November 14, 2007 I really need advice on my situation would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
yesitsme_2 Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 just leave her alone!! if you were really good to her then leave her alone for a while...just dont contact her...after a while she'll realize what she has lost...just make her miss you....stop contacting her...
distressed Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 Be patient. I was in a similar situation and I know what you're going through. When she's upset, is she really upset with you? Or is there other stress? Try and identify the stress that she's under and help with that area. Make sure that she understands what she's really angry at/with. As for the communication issue.... that was wrong. You can only hope that she'll forgive you for that indiscretion.
Author BwsLnc07 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Posted November 25, 2007 We did get that communication problem fixed she realized it was just a big misunderstanding and she is not upset with me at all. We are actually on good terms but Im sticking to NC just to give her some much needed space and a breather from everthing.
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