your star Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 an update on my situation is that my ex of 6 years broke the relationship off and disappeared for 2 months. he popped back into my life last month on my birthday to wish me a happy bday. it's thrown me off since. unfortunately i've had LC rather than NC. last night we were talking via text and I sort of snapped on him. i think i was releasing all the built up emotions I've had. I told him that he doesnt give two sh**ts about me and that i was sick and tired of letting him get away with all these things. i definately went off on him. afterwards his response was, "i dont care" in any case, i feel better that i let him finally have a piece of my mind. i cried all night though. my eyes are all puffy this morning i think it's time for the NC path.
carrotgirl Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Star, sorry to hear you spent a tough night but way to go taking care of yourself. I hope you felt empowered after you let loose on the ex and got that rage out. Did you? Well either way, good on ya! Hope today was better than yesterday. Carrot.
MattyTee Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 Sorry that you had a bad night Star, I hope things are better today. It does go up and down a bit, but the NC should help. I'm feeling a bit crappy today with no particular reason. I'm sure I just need a nice cuppa. Good luck with the NC! Your avatar still makes me laugh
Author your star Posted November 15, 2007 Author Posted November 15, 2007 thank you carrot and Matty. I had a better day definately. The ex actually sent a text mssg yesterday afternoon apologizing for being an a** and even called me last night.. I'm still going forth with NC.
bustertypsy Posted November 15, 2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Your star,I am so sorry for the position you find yourself in. You definately need to go NC.All that will happen otherwise is that it will prolong your recovery. I don't even know if you want this guy back,if you do,then again,no contact.If you want to tell him the reason why,fine,just once he leaves you alone,unless he wants to seriously give the relationship another chance,and you want the same thing. At least then you will have the time to heal and start afresh,without him. I hope things work out for you in the way you wish they do.
Author your star Posted November 15, 2007 Author Posted November 15, 2007 thank you buster. at one point I of course wanted him back, but have since decided I'm better off without him. so as hard as it's going to be, I'm going NC full force.
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