NickiNick Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Hi all, I guess i post here bc like most of you guys i need some advice or a little cheer up bc i'm pretty lost right now. I met this girl 2 years ago at university and we started dating for 6 months, the good thing is that we had the same background, went to the same kind of school, have a lot of people we know in common and we have never met before... life is good so far. At the end of the year we had to accomplish a training and so did she! I had to leave for 6 months in North Africa and her, to be coming back at the same time organised her training abroad for the same period so we could meet back together when it was over. Once on training i was still in conctact with her for 2 months, then i guess the distance was difficult to handle and we split up without really talking about it. When I cam back to my country of origin i did'nt call her and neither did she. We met 6 months later and something happened, we got back together on new years eve for a week... yep just a week bc i had to leave to another university in Switzerland. Again we stayed together for 1 month and split up because of distance. On the summer break got back home and contacted her, again we got back together and finally i convinced her to come and study with me at the same university, the same course to be with her. So far things are still going pretty well. At some point friends of mine had accomodation problems and had to find a place to stay. They found a 3 room apartment and i ask my gf to move in with me and my two friends. This was the beginning of the end. She started blaming me for not talking about it, it went too fast... we had very few sexual relations and we couldn't really sleep together all the time in the same bed. 1 month after moving in she decided to split up because she didn't feel for me anymore, she was troubled and stressed because of the workload, had to make new friends etc... i felt really bad because i realised i was in love deeply with that girl... i did'nt know how to react living with without being with her... it's absolutely crazy. It's been 3 months now this situation has been holding with ups and downs, fake hopes of getting back together etc... until this weekend where everything exploded. She went out clubbing and kissed some guy i know, it was just a kiss but it got me really mad. I send her violent text messages, the kind of msg i can't describe here with the B*** word etc... I want her to leave now, i'm sick of this situation it's been too long and I have no more hope of getting back with her. She can not move out for financial reasons. What should i do?? Please give me advices...
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