Monkey_With_Attitude Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 So me and this girl have been split since like the start of August. And we've been in conversation through text reguarly since then (shes always the one to text me first, she is the dumper). Everything ended all of a sudden. Young minded girl who said things one day then the next mind had totally changed for no good reason. Was weird, she got proper deep, more then anyone else and so soon. That was damaging I guess. Anyway, it annoyed me that she just texted me all the time and as I KNEW her it would be nice to talk to her, so I rang her once and she wasnt even bothered in the convosation and the other time was drunk...but we won't go there. Basically I was holding out the whole 'i dont care' thing up until about a month ago when i got drunk and rung her and all came out :-S Around that time she also wanted to meet up, she had asked me 3 times before but I said yeah thats fine whenever you want really. But as she menationed it again we set a date, but she had to see if she was 'busy'. Between that time was the whole drunk call thing lol so it never happened. She text me last asking if I was at a firework show as she was (it was in my area) i said no and then she told me she had now got brown hair...to which I didn't reply. Next day I get a text basically asking why I didn't reply lol BULLSEYE! Anyway, she just text me again, its been about a week and a bit I think and she said something like sorry she hadn't spoken to me in a while her phone got broken again (its brand new?) but how have I been? ... I don't really want to reply tbh, but another part of me does. Reason I do is because yes I'd love to keep her in my life and be close to her and see where things go but that doesn't happen cos she can't even ring me. And reason I don't is because it seems like I am a subject of her boredom whereas she only texts me when shes off work and bored and looking for someone to talk to. And for that I feel used. So I may just stay quiet, and when I get the whole why haven't you text me thing just tell her exactly that. What you think? lol
heartoutside Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 you should read my thread, very similar. I would say ignore it, but that's your call....
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