KAGE_Chick Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 My ex and I had been going out for almost two years when he decided that he didn't want to be with me anymore. He reasoning was that it would be hard with us going off to different colleges, us not having any time because of my obligations to my family and that we just would never get to see one another. Turns out they weren't the only reasons. We didn't talk for over a month and the only reason we did was because one of my friends called him worried about me. He and I had a long talk and turns out that his feeling had changed towards me and that he wanted freedom to go and experiment while away at college. he wanted to be friends and for his sake I have been trying. It has been almost four months since we broke up and I still hurt so much. It seems like no matter what i am always getting hurt by him. I want to stop hurting and everyone I know say break the connection with him. I just don't know how. He has been one best and closest friend for two years, the only one i can tell my darkest secrets to, and also the love of my life. It hurts to have him in my life and it hurts be without him. I just don't know where to go from here.
alwayshurt Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 what they told you is right. As long as you remain in touch with him you'll never heal. The fact is that he's over you while you're not. Stop fooling yourself pretending to be his friend. You have different expectations which may or may not come to reality. You should avoid any kind of contact with him to allow you to move on.
Author KAGE_Chick Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 It would be nice to be with him but right now given the choice I wouldn't. I think it is pointless when I know it isnt want he wants too. and we were friends before we got together, it is just impossible to get back to the way it was.
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