WowI'msoConfused Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 ok so i was talking to this girl that i've known for a while and i want to ask her out but idk if she likes me and ya so i was txting her back and forht the other night and she asked "..hows your love life??..whats goin on.. anyone i should know about??..haha :]" and i said there was a girl i liked that i met over the summer but she lived along ways away and that there was a different girl that lived around ehre that i liked but idk wat she thinks(i was talking about her). and asked her about her "love life" and she replied "umm i really dont know whats going on, i just keep choosing the wrong guys..i need a nice guy that i can trust and that i can just chill with you know im soo tired of stupid jerks that just wanna get with me..you know??", i think she likes me but idk I"m just so confused plz help wat if i ask her out and she doesnt like me and she turns me down and then its wierd between us??? plus i think she might like my friend and i'm pretty sure he likes her too wat do i do!?!?!?
gonetildecember Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 just my opinion: but i think that 1. she asked about your life because she was interested... your response, mentionning two girls and her not necessarily assuming u were referring to her may have made her a little hesitant to be more obvious about her feelings. 2. the fact that she said shes looking for someone she can trust and chill with may be a hint of how she hopes u treat her if something were to happen I would either: 1) continue talking , but flirt a lil more and make ur interest a little more obvious to she how she responds.. that way u dont have to put urself out there too much 2) or just say.. u know that girl i was telling u about that i like but dont know what she thinks.. what would u say if i said she was u.. (this one takes some more balls) good luck! her turning u down is a chance ullhave to take.. but on the other hand if she is interested think of how great it would be. ur friend liking her is another ball game! would that cause issues with u two? do they have something going on? are u sure he likes her?
MsArtful Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Before making any moves on her, perhaps you should ask your friend how he feels about her. You don't want to go causing lots of drama and possibly lose his friendship AND the girl.
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