lykyamy00 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 i am so confused and i need advice. at the end of the summer on my last day of work i was being obnixious and announcing to the world that it was my last day. this boy who i worked with and had spoken to like once or twice over the summer apporached me and asked me for my name. he then found me on facebook, imed me and asked for my number. since then i've been at school and he has a full time job but we talked just about every day and saw eachother once or twice a week. things were going fairly well. then my phone broke and i let him know via facebook and we left eachother facebook comments and stuff. when i got a new phone i called to let him know and was at work so he couldnt talk. that was more than a week ago. we havent spoken since. i've called him and he never answers. he doesnt respond to texts, nothing. this is so unlike him i dont know what to make of it. he'snever not called back or texted back. this is the first week since i've been at school that i havent seen him or spoken to him at all but its not like i havnet tried. is this a sign? is he done with me? is he testing me? or am i completely overreacting and hes just been busy? i really dont know what to do and i want to ask but i'm afraid this is me getting blown off and he doesnt want to talk to me any more and even if i do call again he wont answer. what should i do?
acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 It is possible that he is just really busy with school etc. Sounds out of place for him not to call or respond to any of your messages though, I'm taking that from what you said in your post. I'm somewhat familiar with facebook, as many of my friends have it. Is he responding to any messages posted on his board, does it seem like anyone else is having issues getting a hold of him? Also, are you guys dating? Do you go to the same school?
Trezza Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 It's probably not what you want to hear, but to me it sounds like you are getting blown off! Purely because he has done a 180 on his behaviour with you! If you want my opinion, I suggest you move on, or at least don't attempt to get in touch for a while - it sounds like you have made the effort to get in touch via facebook and phone calls etc. the ball is now in his court and it is up to him if he makes a move - if he does, then cool! If not, no worries as you might have moved on!
Author lykyamy00 Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 we were dating but not boyfriend/girlfriend even though several of his friends referred to me as his girlfriend and he told people taht's what i was... he would say to me that i wasnt though... we worked at the same place and he works there full time. i just worked there for the summer and i have some hours over thanksgiving and i'm deff gonna see him there. he graduated from a different school last year and we live an hour apart both when i'm at school and home.
crazy_grl Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Seems like you're getting blown off. Stop trying to contact him. If he wants to get in touch, he knows how.
Racquel Colette Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 The first thing I would do is stop contacting him. The next thing I would do is relax. It's not like you had a big relationship going and he just blew you off, you had a facebook chatting thing going on. Easy come, easy go. It's possible he met someone else. Nothing you can do, it wasn't serious it sounds like with the two of you. Next.
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