onesexybunny Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Okay here is my delema.... I have been dating a guy for a while and we are now becoming intimate. As we were talking he stated he liked to be visually teased...My statment was then of a women being dressed up in lingere...he said that was also a turn on.....so now i am confused as to what a man would consider being visually teased..... any suggestion would be helpful as i would like for him to be fully satisfied.
nicki Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Lucky you! You have a guy who tells you what he likes. Some guys are auditory and get off on hearing your voice, your moans, your words of what you are going to do to them later. Stuff like that. But, your guy is visual. So, that means letting him catch you naked while you slather lotion on your bare breasts. It means flashing him a body part while he is on the phone and he can't have you until later. It also means leaving the lights on while you have sex, so he can see all of you. Enjoy lots of eye contact with him while you are giving him oral. Lingerie is great, but I'd bet he would love for you to make him sit on the bed while you strip your clothes off piece by piece until you are standing there in a sexy bra and boyshorts. Let him watch you naked in the bathroom putting on your makeup. Walk around without a top on, just your jeans, while you tidy up the house. Just remember, he wants to look at you, at your body, at your enjoyment during sex. Don't stress. Have fun. And report back here!
nicki Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Oh, yeah, and let him catch you "pleasuring" yourself. He'll never get that picture out of his head. Really, you have hit on a great point. Many guys are visual. Many are auditory. Many are tactile and simply enjoy touching and the feel of things, like silky lingerie or the feel of your bare skin. They want to hold you in soft sheets and smell your hair. Stuff like that. (Personally, my favorite kind of lover.) Most guys enjoy all three, but are usually turned on most by one in particular. By the way, which one are you? You could tell him what turns you on the most, too.
Saxis Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Many are tactile and simply enjoy touching and the feel of things, like silky lingerie or the feel of your bare skin. They want to hold you in soft sheets and smell your hair. Stuff like that. (Personally, my favorite kind of lover.) Most guys enjoy all three, but are usually turned on most by one in particular. By the way, which one are you? You could tell him what turns you on the most, too. Spot on for me!! :bunny: To the OP: My guess is that he just wants you to strip for him. But since he was able to talk about it, I think you should just ask him explicitly what it is he wants you to do.
Trialbyfire Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Visual teasing should be combined with an element of fantasy. If you show too much, like running around with no top or bottom, it's little too blatant. It should be a flash of this or that, in the most appropriately inappropriate time possible. Keep him wired for later...
Lizzie60 Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Okay here is my delema.... I have been dating a guy for a while and we are now becoming intimate. As we were talking he stated he liked to be visually teased...My statment was then of a women being dressed up in lingere...he said that was also a turn on.....so now i am confused as to what a man would consider being visually teased..... any suggestion would be helpful as i would like for him to be fully satisfied. could be a lot of things.. and a lot of fun... lingerie is a good way to stimulate him visually... then the body language.. the smile, the 'dirty look' while taking a sip of your drink... the way you eat your food... with your fingers.. and licking them at the same time... starring at him... play with your hair.. lick and bite your lips... have fun... this is the best part.. really.. foreplay is amazing especially when a couple takes its time...
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