minerva63 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 I was doing really well at NC--16 days--proud of myself, feeling like I got some distance from the whole mess, when out of the blue his wife (before you attack, I didn't know and it ended when I found out, we both agreed to NC when he went back to his marriage) calls me and wants to know why my phone number is back in his cell phone. First thought--ask him, it's his phone!! why drag me into this!!! Second thought--what is he up to? why did he do that? Third thought--if he were to call me would I be able to resist? Fourth thought--no What's wrong with me?
pinktiger Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Love is nothing about marriage specially you did not know. I guess as human beings, we just can not turn on and turn off our feelings like a faucet. It is nothing wrong to miss him even though you should resist him because you don't want to drag your name via the mess. They should figure out their problem first because if their marriage was perfect, he would never fell for you. However, stay out of trouble.
MatsumeKazuo Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 So she's going to stay with her cheating husband? If anything, your number could have been in there from a long while ago. But there's nothing wrong with you. You still have feelings for this guy, but you left him because of what kind of man he is. You have to keep that in mind when you think you won't be able to resist him (if he did call).
Author minerva63 Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 When she called me to tell me that I was dating her husband (that was fun) she told me she had "too much invested" in the relationship to just give it up. They've been together 3 yrs, married 2, baby 16 months old. She's called a couple of times to verify that he hasn't contacted me. After a couple of weeks I asked her very politely to leave me out of it. I told her that she would have to ask him and trust his answer if she had any hope of making it work. She said she would, but she was very angry when she called this last time, with the baby crying in the background (I think that was intentional) She said she had personally taken my number off his phone. I think she thinks I'm up to something now. UGH. I just want the drama to end. Hate drama.
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