Ima littleconfused Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 So, after being blown off all weekend, i get a text message this morning from girl. It says "Gd morning, I know that its been a couple of days, and im sorry 4 that, but if you would like to cum over 2day, it would be nice, if you want?" Im not really sure how to react to this. i mean i want to see, her but i am still pissed that she blew me off all weekend, and if i just jump and go see her then she will think that it is alright to do this kind of thing again in the future and im not about to let that happen. So up to this point i told her that i would let her know when i get back into town because i had to go out of town for business. Not exactly sure what else to do, any ideas? thanks
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Did you have plans for the weekend that she cancelled on???
gonetildecember Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 I agree, i you agree to go see her, she'll eel as i you are at her disposal.. and this situation will happen over and over. As much as you want to see her, I would say sorry I have plans... don't go into detail...and then possibly suggest another meeting date.. so that she knows everything isn't just going to happen on HER terms.
acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 If you didn't have any plans set for this past weekend, I would tell that you wish you could but have plans for the night, and then set something up for tomorrow or Wednesday. I wouldn't jump at the chance to hang out with her right away, even though you really want to.
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 If you didn't have any plans set for this past weekend, I would tell that you wish you could but have plans for the night, and then set something up for tomorrow or Wednesday. I wouldn't jump at the chance to hang out with her right away, even though you really want to. Totally agree but if you didn't have plans for the weekend and your just annoyed cause she didn't want to see you as she had other plans, think about if shoe was on the other foot and you had plans with the lads. We don't know the full situ so am just trying to cover some diff situ's.
acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Totally agree but if you didn't have plans for the weekend and your just annoyed cause she didn't want to see you as she had other plans, think about if shoe was on the other foot and you had plans with the lads. We don't know the full situ so am just trying to cover some diff situ's. Not to get off topic, but I read your advice on a few different posts and was wondering if you could help me on my dilemma..http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t135738/. Thanks!
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Not to get off topic, but I read your advice on a few different posts and was wondering if you could help me on my dilemma..http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t135738/. Thanks! me or the dude who started this thread?
acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 me or the dude who started this thread? You, if you wouldn't mind.
Author Ima littleconfused Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 Sorry for the lack of details, Its a two part situation, we planned on spending the weekend together 2 weeks ago, but didnt solidify the specifics. Yes we were supposed to get together starting back on friday, she cancelled our date at the last minute and said that we would still get together on saturday and that she would call me back saturday. She never called. Prior to this she spent about a week or two cancelling all of our dates, but she took the initiative to reschedule the dates. its not like i kept begging to reschedule. As for being exclusive, we were, then we werent then we were. now we arent. but a date is a date regardless of that.!! i think?
latefragment Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 this sounds EXACTLY like what I've been going thru with a guy I am still kind of maybe talking to. I'm not holding my breath for him though, thank goodness. Sorry to hear you've been getting the mixed messages too. Definitely don't go over tonight. I actually turned him down to come over last night because I didn't want to be at his beck and call either. Although I'm questioning my decision I think it was the right one. No way he should feel like I'm going to jump when he says jump after blowing me off for ages.
acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Sorry for the lack of details, Its a two part situation, we planned on spending the weekend together 2 weeks ago, but didnt solidify the specifics. Yes we were supposed to get together starting back on friday, she cancelled our date at the last minute and said that we would still get together on saturday and that she would call me back saturday. She never called. Prior to this she spent about a week or two cancelling all of our dates, but she took the initiative to reschedule the dates. its not like i kept begging to reschedule. As for being exclusive, we were, then we werent then we were. now we arent. but a date is a date regardless of that.!! i think? What was her reasoning for canceling the dates and her never calling you back on Sunday?
Author Ima littleconfused Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 What was her reasoning for canceling the dates and her never calling you back on Sunday? Aside from the text this morning, i have not gotten one. im sure i can dream up any amount of excuses but, havent heard one yet
Author Ima littleconfused Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 Ok finally got the excuse..... "Time got away from me, sry. i asumed that if you didnt hear from me you would have known, sory"
gonetildecember Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 that's not a good excuse.. for me that wouldn't be acceptable. If you guys had plans and she cancelled, then argreed to do something the next day and she didnt call again and didn't show up.. she could have at least had the decency to tell you she would not make it. You aren't at her disposal.. and she should have more respect for you than to expect you to just sit there and wait for her. assuming that if u didnt not here you would have known is the worst excuse i've ever heard!
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