acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Hey guys, need some quick advice, I am usually pretty good at these things but this girl has me all confused! Quick recap…well sorta quick….I’m 22 as is she, both attractive..outgoing. Friday night at a very nice club, 11:30…out in smoking room… very attractive girl approaches me and my friends, asks for a lighter, I provide…we start talking….30 mins later we are still talking and having a great time…her friends keep trying to get her to dance…so I tell her nice meeting you and a have a good nite..gave her a kiss on the cheek and went back to my friends. 1:00AM…run into her up in the VIP area…smiled and walked by…she grabbed my arm and asked me to join her for a smoke break…said sure…on the way down to the smoking with her behind me holding my hand VERY tight, I turn to the dance floor instead and we dance for a few songs…very close dancing to put it in a clean way. 1:30AM..go out for a smoke…she can’t find her friends…so I help her for a bit but she still can’t find her friends…by this time she is pretty drunk…I had a good buzz, but not drunk at all…she keeps asking me what I was doing later on..I said after party at friends…she asked me at least 5 times in 10 mins to take her with…I said it wasn’t a good idea, that we should try and find her friends instead. 2:00AM…find one of her friends outside on her phone in front of club..talked for a few mins…they wanted to come to our after party so we took them…in the car she was kissing my neck holding my hand…snuggling…etc. 3:00AM-5:00AM….back at after party…8 or so people there…have very long talks about everything..family, exes., goals, school, life, sex, why we both were single…LOTS of kissing,..asked to sit on my lap when outside smoking…asked me to hold her tight…go back inside..every one is doing there one thing somewhere else….we lay down on the couch facing each other…grab blanket…kiss for a few mins…I am pretty tired at this point and don’t sleep with girls the first time I meet them, so I switch gears and start rubbing her head to help her sleep…she passes out..I get up sleep next to her on the floor. 11:00AM….she wakes up..I’ve already showered, eaten etc. She wakes her friend up…we laugh about the night…I drive them home so they could go get her car downtown…car ride was about 30 mins…somewhat awkward…she seemed hung over, crabby, had an attitude on her…I called her out on her attitude, said she apparently isn’t a morning girl..she laughed…got out of the car..gave her friend a hug..then she hugged me…prolly the strongest most intense 10 sec hug ever…gave her a kiss said have fun tonight…she told me to text her when I was downtown and we would meet up. Now here is where it all gets weird…around 6:00PM my friends and I decide not to go out for the night…I text her “Plans have changed. We are partying here instead. You should come here for an after party if your up for it.” 2:30AM….have not gotten a text or call…so I gave her a quick call..left a short VM…never called or texted back. 3:00PM Sunday….text her “How’s the rockstar tiffany feeling today?” Monday morning…nothing at all yet. Now, as from my long post you can tell I am sorta hung up on this girl. I meet 3 other girls Friday night..kissed them..got numbers etc. I have no interest in them. I am good looking, fun, nice, guy with a great group of friends that are alike…never had a problem meeting girls…and never have had this happen. Advice???
birdie Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 well you have done what you could, you contacted her enough times to show interest. the nag is that you don't know what her situation is. it could be that she has someone else she has some ties to (maybe not a serious boyfriend because she probably wouldn't have asked you to text her) or that she is not ready to see someone also, don't know if she meant that you should text her that night about going out. maybe it was too soon for her
Author acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 well you have done what you could, you contacted her enough times to show interest. the nag is that you don't know what her situation is. it could be that she has someone else she has some ties to (maybe not a serious boyfriend because she probably wouldn't have asked you to text her) or that she is not ready to see someone also, don't know if she meant that you should text her that night about going out. maybe it was too soon for her She did say that she was seeing someone who moved to CA...but last time she went out there he treated her like crap..and they haven't talked in a while..said they broke it off. She did say for me to text her that night so we could meet up downtown.
Author acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 I'm thinking about it now...when I gave her my phone number on Friday night..it was about 1:00AM..and she was pretty drunk at the point...maybe she didn't save it correctly? Haha, I'm laughing at myself right now. I can't believe I am this hung up on this girl! Seriously, it's like I can't stop thinking about her. I know she at least felt something, as she told me and my friends a few times that she can't figure out why I don't have a GF..
Author acrosstheroom Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 I talked to a few of my friends that were there Friday night at lunch today about this girl. 3 guys and 1 girl said that it was obvious she was just looking for a good time that night, and since I didn't sleep with her, she is probably pissed off or embarrassed and had no intention beyond that night. She also lives an hour away going to school, though she said she comes home every weekend. Oh well...guess she worked her magic on me that night, just didn't know what her spells were for. No one else has any opinions?
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