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Just curious: why would he have done this?


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This is the same guy in the other thread. A few years back this guy and I both worked at a ski resort and I was coming off of a weekend as resident manager, so I was staying in one of the guest buildings. Early that morning I got up before 7 to pop down to the kitchen before they got busy to grab some oatmeal. (I still dream about that stupid oatmeal, it was the best!) Right when I got to the door, I heard the guy knocking gently and saying "room service" in a whisper. I just let him open the door I was so irritated. When he saw me standing there he started stuttering and was like, Oh, sorry, I was checking rooms and I didn't know there was anyone in here, um, bye!

 

The thing was, his shift didn't start for another 20 minutes, and he wasn't supposed to "check rooms" for another 2 hours. He also had the room list in his hand that would have had my name and room number. Finally, if he were checking rooms he mysteriously only came to my room. I would have heard him opening and closing other doors before and after he came to mine. What was he up to, do you think?

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No ideas? I've been pretty stumped, too.

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This happened a few years ago? Why is it still important to you?

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This happened a few years ago? Why is it still important to you?

I think this is a good ? ICB. If it was sooo long ago why still be thinking about it?

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Because I'm not ok with pursuing a relationship with him if he's psycho/obsessive. I'm just wondering if this is "normal" behavior or not.

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Because I'm not ok with pursuing a relationship with him if he's psycho/obsessive. I'm just wondering if this is "normal" behavior or not.

no thats not normal.

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I think it's normal - to an extent. Maybe he saw you coming in, and he just wanted to see what you were all about. Guys can do weird things when they're nervous. I think the only thing you can do is talk to the guy and try and read him through that.

 

Are you going to pursue a relationship with him when it happened so long ago?

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We're friends now and I have reason to think he has a thing for me, so I might.

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Because I'm not ok with pursuing a relationship with him if he's psycho/obsessive. I'm just wondering if this is "normal" behavior or not.

 

Seems like you're a bit obsessive too, perhaps it's a good match?

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