Author Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 So coc-what do you think after reading all the very excellent LS advice (hey-they are coming out full force for you here-I barely typed my original entry and was on page 2 by the time i hit "post"!) I can only offer this: you will only feel as good about your decision as the next partner is positive or negative in comparison. Meaning-it is so relative, the dilemma you are experiencing. If you break up and meet another BF a few years down the line who is better or worse-you will feel either nostalgic for your ex, OR positive it was the right thing to do. Yeah, no easy answers. But I gave you really , really good advice! It's the truth! I'm really grateful for everyone on here, it's always nice to know you have people supporting you. Most of my friends and family won't like me doing this, but at least I know I have LS to vent on. I completely agree with what you said. Hopefully it is positive, but at the moment I can't even consider being with anyone else. But I thank you for your advice and yes it was good
Saxis Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Yea I doubt a break will do us any good. Not to mention he'd probably be on top of the nearest possible skank asap That's probably your answer right there. What is it that makes you think about him like this? There's nothing good about it at all...
johan Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 That's probably your answer right there. What is it that makes you think about him like this? There's nothing good about it at all... That's how they met.
Author Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 That's probably your answer right there. What is it that makes you think about him like this? There's nothing good about it at all... I know what his friends are like and I know how immature he is. I don't want to make him the bad guy, he has been in most respects a wonderful boyfriend and I still love him despite all of this going on. But he is only 19 and after being with someone for 3 years... well I can imagine. To deal with the breakup, because they're an ass. Whatever. Either way it won't be my concern. Crap I'm actually going to do this aren't I?
Author Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 That's how they met. Johan! I'm not sure how I feel about you know... I think we need to be apart for awhile... See if only it was that easy Kidding too sweetie pie I would never leave you.
Author Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 I feel like being sick. Since I got home I've had to act all cheery, like nothing is wrong. He is in a foul mood, as per usual, and he's barely spoken two words to me which didn't contain a grunt And NOW he expects me to have sex with him Lately when I haven't wanted to have sex, he's made me feel so low, like I'm being lazy or a bitch. Uh no actually I just don't want him near me. There's nothing worse then having sex with someone when you aren't attracted to them in anyway anymore. This has to end. But how the hell can I end it? If I do this I will be on my own for the first time in my life. I don't have the strength to go through the whole break-up thing. He will hate me and so will quite alot of the friends we share. I hope he doesn't try and fight it, I doubt he would, he never was one to for me, but if he does I just know I would end up taking him back. I need to get out of here
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