Aussie65 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 I came home on Friday to find my LDR at my front door with flowers in hand which was so romantic and we had both missed each other greatly!. The weekend went well but come Sunday he started pulling away from me.I went out shopping with him and he was oggling other women...that really got me cut.That night he said to me that he wasn't looking for anyone "at the moment"....so I am suppose to feel secure about our relationship?It's hard enough him being so far away but to say something like that after saying the sweetest thigs to me Friday and Saturday?..my heart dropped!it was if he got what he wanted and the novelty was over...that's how I felt. He also doesn't think there is anything wrong with dropping in on female friends....knowing what a flirt my guy is I don't feel comfortable with this and recently a friend of mine slept with her so called male friend....I just think it's asking for trouble.His friends are usually women he was attracted to or had something going with at some time not just a buddy type friend!. I am trying to trust him completely but it's hard and he is not working on meeting me halfway with things...he simply is not wanting to talk about issues at all.I feel he not only has moved for his own selfish reasons but now wants me to just shut up and put up.I asked him if he was coming up this weekend and his response was...I will have to see what happens.Originally he was coming back to see me...then to go to a Christmas party for his old work but he told me if he wasn't going to the party then he may not come up.When he took on this job after living with me for the past year he promised he would come up every weekend...it's around a three hour drive or I can go down there.I now see he is not wanting to make that effort after the romantic gesture on Friday...I am left feeling like a piece of meat. Am I overreacting here or should I have reason for concern?
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