Phateless Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 There you go. That's why this is so pertinent to you. I'll tell you what I do. If I sense any interest and I'm previously committed, the information is almost the first thing that comes out of my mouth. If I don't get a sense of interest, I don't bother. That's good. All we're pointing out is that a lot of guys who don't seem interested ARE. At a bar, just about the ONLY reason a guy talks to a girl is because he's interested. All I'm saying is, if a new guy starts talking to you, as a rule, you should mention the bf at some point because you don't know if he's interested or not. He may not show it, or you may not pick up on it. Odds are, he'll appreciate the tip. Again, I think the work situation is a little different, until it turns personal or casual, then there's no difference. Haha, yep, it's very pertinent to me. I have girl-ADD at the moment, and I meet A LOT of new women all the time. I don't want to make things awkward for her or me by hitting on a girl who's taken.
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 That's good. All we're pointing out is that a lot of guys who don't seem interested ARE. At a bar, just about the ONLY reason a guy talks to a girl is because he's interested. All I'm saying is, if a new guy starts talking to you, as a rule, you should mention the bf at some point because you don't know if he's interested or not. He may not show it, or you may not pick up on it. Odds are, he'll appreciate the tip. Again, I think the work situation is a little different, until it turns personal or casual, then there's no difference. Haha, yep, it's very pertinent to me. I have girl-ADD at the moment, and I meet A LOT of new women all the time. I don't want to make things awkward for her or me by hitting on a girl who's taken. If a guy doesn't make his interest known in some way, I see it as his responsibility to deal with the awkwardness, if it should come up. Hiding interest is completely his issue.
Phateless Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 If a guy doesn't make his interest known in some way, I see it as his responsibility to deal with the awkwardness, if it should come up. Hiding interest is completely his issue. True.....................
oppath Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 If a guy doesn't make his interest known in some way, I see it as his responsibility to deal with the awkwardness, if it should come up. Hiding interest is completely his issue. But if I am asking you what your favorite sexual position is, it means I am interested . And I ask that question a lot because you can learn a lot about someone based on what their answers are. . (missionary for the most intimate, romantic times; girl on top for the other times).
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 But if I am asking you what your favorite sexual position is, it means I am interested . And I ask that question a lot because you can learn a lot about someone based on what their answers are. . (missionary for the most intimate, romantic times; girl on top for the other times). Yes, I agree that this would be construed as fairly blatant interest...
uniqueone Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 I think if someone is good at communicating with people...both verbally and non-verbally, they can figure a lot of things out about someone they meet (or even before they meet them). Some people just don't catch the signs though. I'm a huge observer. I notice everything and pick up every nuance. I find those people who talk a lot (the opposite of me) often don't pick up a lot of things from people that they meet. I'm talking the type of person who tends to dominate conversations. They often aren't too observing.
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