Sw3etdev1L Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Well I broke up a almost two months ago. Last saturday I bumped into my ex in a club, he was with this horrible girl. Anyway. I approached him to say hi. He didn't introduced the girl to me, he literrally ignored her and payed attention to me which I think was rude to his companion. Then I just went to the dancefloor and danced with this new guy who had been flirting with me all night long. I didn't notice but my ex went to dance for a bit to the dancefloor. I know he went dancing because one of my friends told me. Well on monday, I wanted to look at his pictures on facebook (this internet program such as hi5 you know)..well he erased me from his list so I couldn't even look at his profile. I know this sounds lame but it hurt my feelings. why did he do this I mean, he was the one who said we should keep on going with our path and time would tell if we would go back or not. He was the one who said he didn't " love me ". so.....I mean, he also said he wanted to be friends with me...I took that literally. well. I felt he was very rude. why did he do this??
birdie Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 because he wants to move on. most people reduce contact and avoid the other even if they have feelings for their ex. it's too painful
sedgwick Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Because it hurts him to see you or talk to you. That's just how it is. When he said he wanted to be friends, he may have just said that as a way to maintain a relationship with you of any sort, and now he sees that he can't do that without feeling hurt. Do you want to be with him again? You have to be prepared, when you dump someone, to never hear from them again.
ninjaturtles Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Who wanted out of the relationship? sounds like he was the one who wanted out....so its strange..maybe he still likes you. I deleted my ex from facebook because it was too painful for me. I did not want to see his new pics or updates etc. If he said he didnt love you, Im guessing he broke up with you? Maybe he wants to move on, but then if he didnt love you, anymore hasnt he already moved on? ...... confusing...
Author Sw3etdev1L Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 he was the one who said...we were too different and that thought he liked me and knew I was a sweet girl and stuff we should take some time off and see where our destiny took us and s..t. then two weeks later I talked to him on the phone and we were discussing how things would have been better for us two. so then I said to him we should consider a second chance...he suggested for us to have a free relationship.. Obviously I said no..so I understood and kept on moving on with my life. I mean, we both agreed in doing that so I just don't understand the rudeness. anyway, thank you for your posts guys...I don't know if he is hurt or not but he truly acted like a jerk inmature guy. I mean it, and it hurts me. Cause I did love him,
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