mwhitlockus Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 PLEASE HELP! I have accused my bf of cheating based on information I gained through various sources (computer, mutual friend, and phone calls). Not once has he admitted to the act. The evidence is on the table, but he doesn't budge. I have asked him to just come clean, but nothing. I have told him everything that I know, and that I don't have to be in the room to witness his infidelity. He still denys cheating. We have broken up 3x, and now we're back at it. I told myself I wasn't going to do it, but his efforts to win back my affections were endless. IT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE!!! One week has passed and I can't live with the fact that I'm talking to him again. I'm faking everything. Also, I saw pics of him and her on a common social forum. I haven't told him that I saw them. I'm scared and I'M IN DENIAL! What should I do?
MatsumeKazuo Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 You cannot expect this relationship to get any better from this point on. You have to tell him that you're going to leave him - and do it! Just tell him about all the evidence you have, and then do what you have to do. Don't wait for him to make a move.
Elyssa Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 This relationship is not going to get better if he continues denying the affair. Collect all the proof you have and show it to him, particularly these pictures of him and the other woman. From what you tell us, I don't think he's ever going to admit the affair, and you certainly cannot continue to have a relationship with a man that will cheat, lie and on top of that, refuse to admit it and work to earn your trust. He is not willing to work on the relationship, so why should you do the effort of trying to get over the affair that he isn't even admitting?! Even if he admitted it now... at this point, is he really worth all the heartache he's put you through? -E
cj1988 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 My H is the same way. No matter what evidence I have he has denied it for over a year now. Thy will always try and change the story and make up new lies to add to the pile of crap you already have.....get rid of him and see if he comes clean. If he does, go fron there, if he does not then you know that YOU did not maen enough for him to first admit he was wrong and second to admit he honestly loves you enough to fight for you ! I am doing the same. Good luck, NO ONE is worth this pain, only WE can make it stop !
bish Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 You need to find the courage to leave his sorry cheating, lying ass. I know its hard, but this guy is no good for you or any other woman out there. Kick him to the curb and never look back. Once you find someone else and start dating, he will mean nothing to you...cuz thats what he is...nothing.
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