Woggle Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 We hear all the time about red flags women should look out for so what are some red flags a man should look out for?
johan Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 We hear all the time about red flags women should look out for so what are some red flags a man should look out for? If she's an ex of mine, steer clear.
Citizen Erased Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 If she's an ex of mine, steer clear. Well I think Woggle has you on the worse ex department, or have you been shot at recently?
johan Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 Well I think Woggle has you on the worse ex department, or have you been shot at recently? No, I've never been shot at. I've just had my heart ripped from my chest, put in a blender, poured out on the floor, and they frolicked in it, then swept it all up and put it in the trash. But no, none of them ever shot at me and missed.
tommyr Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 No, I've never been shot at. I've just had my heart ripped from my chest, put in a blender, poured out on the floor, and they frolicked in it, then swept it all up and put it in the trash. Reminds me of that hysterical Sam Kinison act. google for "sam kinison on marriage" and watch it on utube (NSFW) another one like it: google for "sam kinison Are You Lonesome Tonight"
Racquel Colette Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 In general, for a guy or a gal, if someone isn't giving you affection and attention back and showing you that they care and are interested and invested in the relationship, then that is a "red flag" that they are just not that into you.
Love Jones Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 She has a penis She has a husband She won't talk about her past She seems ashamed to be seen with you in public She has huge mood swings She wants you to **** her without condoms She's got a drug problem She's got a personality disorder She's unemployed and not looking for a job She's got anger management problems
Citizen Erased Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 No, I've never been shot at. I've just had my heart ripped from my chest, put in a blender, poured out on the floor, and they frolicked in it, then swept it all up and put it in the trash. But no, none of them ever shot at me and missed. Aww, sorry I didn't mean to say yours wasn't terrible or anything I still love you
lazer1743 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 I would say be careful with the ones that say "I just want to have fun" or "Im not sure what i really want now". Its not that they are bad or anything but chances are high that they are looking for something different than you are.
lazer1743 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 She has a penis Yah, thats a pretty big red flag.
Citizen Erased Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Yah, thats a pretty big red flag. If it was smaller would you care?
sumdude Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 She doesn't introduce you to or hang out with people from her past anymore.. After a while your friends start to make themselves scarce when you're hanging out with her She doesn't know when to stop talking and listen.. She molds herself a little too much to your life too quickly.. She has a wedding dress in her closet... and models it for you... then tells you it's a wedding she ran away from. i could go on...
BeautifulMusic Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 She has a wedding dress in her closet... and models it for you... then tells you it's a wedding she ran away from. i could go on... haha, wait... is this a hypothetical, or did your ex do this?
brothermartin Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 RED FLAGS: Top Five- 1.Mention of issues with her father or parents. 2.If she has only ONE real friend, girl or otherwise. 3.Any questions about how much you make or what you drive on the first date. 4.Way too clingy, flirty, needy, moody or sensitive. 5.Prone to argue intensely about anything, anywhere, at any time. If two or more of these redflags are noticed, talk to your doctor. You may be exsperiencing side effects from long-term trauma or past childhood bulls**t.
Citizen Erased Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 RED FLAGS: Top Five- 1.Mention of issues with her father or parents. 2.If she has only ONE real friend, girl or otherwise. 3.Any questions about how much you make or what you drive on the first date. 4.Way too clingy, flirty, needy, moody or sensitive. 5.Prone to argue intensely about anything, anywhere, at any time. If two or more of these redflags are noticed, talk to your doctor. You may be exsperiencing side effects from long-term trauma or past childhood bulls**t. So pretty much, stay single everyone
sumdude Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 haha, wait... is this a hypothetical, or did your ex do this? If I told you would you still respect me in the morning? uhhh... wow it was a pretty crazy thing wayyy back in the day Long n' short of it is ... yes... it did kinda happen that way. She told me that x was an abusive man and she blew off the wedding. etc etc. She threw a party at her place the night we first kissed, she was pretty tipsy and put on the dress as a lark for the guests. Well 6 yrs later we married ... less than 2 years after that she has another, now used wedding dress laying around.. Looking back now I must have been a total phool not to see the big blazing red flags the size of texas ... but alas ... in so many ways she was great .. except that whole commitment thing, oh yeah and the getting along well with others thing too.. once a runaway bride once a runaway wife DOH! Truth is stranger than fiction ... more painful too... LOL
Author Woggle Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 Here are some mine. She uses the word patriarchy She left her ex husband to go find herself She ever cheated on a man If she tries to cut you off from your friends and family If she tries to change you If she seems to be incapable of being content and enjoying peace
Pyro Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 We hear all the time about red flags women should look out for so what are some red flags a man should look out for? I'd say that pretty much the same red flags apply to both genders, from what they sound like.
johan Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 You just have to get them when they are young, Woggle. Around 20 is perfect.
Citizen Erased Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 You just have to get them when they are young, Woggle. Around 20 is perfect. Gee I don't know... 37 seems like such a good age
lino Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 My 2 biggest red flags are: If she uses any drugs at all. Smokes & alcohol are ok though. If she has lots of guy friends and very few girlfriends. until a few years ago I was not bothered by these things one bit & they weren't red flags at all but experience has shown otherwise.
dbtmarley Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Wife number 1 red flags... (I was 19 and full of cum): 5 kids from 5 different daddies. Saves a phone number and tells you this is just in case you don't come through. Her oldest son tells you, "My mother is a hoe!". Wife number 2 red flags... you find a phone number to a dating line on your bedroom floor one morning after work. You look at the number and see both guys and girls names next to mailbox numbers. You call said number and discover it's a dating line. You punch in a few of the numbers and discover your wife's add. In it she says she is bi curious (news to you) and interested in meeting both men and women. Upon showing her this crap she says she did it out of boredom... Loe and behold 6 years later you get a HIV test and the mother fricker comes back positive. You confront her and she claims someone must have injected her with their blood. Tired of her lies and deceit and your own stupidity.... I better stop my blood is beginning to boil and I have to take care of a baby today..
birdie Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Wife number 1 red flags... (I was 19 and full of cum): 5 kids from 5 different daddies. Saves a phone number and tells you this is just in case you don't come through. Her oldest son tells you, "My mother is a hoe!". Wife number 2 red flags... you find a phone number to a dating line on your bedroom floor one morning after work. You look at the number and see both guys and girls names next to mailbox numbers. You call said number and discover it's a dating line. You punch in a few of the numbers and discover your wife's add. In it she says she is bi curious (news to you) and interested in meeting both men and women. Upon showing her this crap she says she did it out of boredom... Loe and behold 6 years later you get a HIV test and the mother fricker comes back positive. You confront her and she claims someone must have injected her with their blood. Tired of her lies and deceit and your own stupidity.... I better stop my blood is beginning to boil and I have to take care of a baby today.. I am so very sorry about the the HIV thing. it is the unfairness of it that is the most upsetting. if someone is an idiot, it's hard to feel sorry for them but an innocent victim like you... it is truly awful as for some of the other posts here: some of the potential red flags look to me like those boys would prefer to date the Stepford Wives
Author Woggle Posted November 12, 2007 Author Posted November 12, 2007 I don't think they want stepfords but men should have standards. If they did they wouldn't find themselves in these situations.
bish Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 We hear all the time about red flags women should look out for so what are some red flags a man should look out for? Women that: go clubbing and simulate sex on the dancefloor constantly look at themselves in a mirror smoke (although this is a personal preference, I haven't met a woman that smokes yet that could be trusted..no offense to the ones that smoke that don't cheat....sorry) flirt heavily with other guys when on a date with you wear low cut jeans and thongs for everyone to see you know have cheated before have hooked up with a MM before
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