TheRock Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 We were 2gether for a year and a half. I'm 36 my GF is going to be 31. She's been under intense pressure from work, getting her Masters and from her family about her age, when she's going to get married, etc... Her bro just got married last week. We've taken a break for the past 2 1/2 weeks. She said she loves me but needed time to think. I said I was done and called said I was breaking up w\her. (She 's been Hot & Cold for past few months. One day ALL into me then doesn't call for a day or 2.) Prior to the break, she made me a pie, came over to cook dinner, etc. -Obviously caring about me. So, we took the "Break". Last Mon. she txtd me "Hi :)" I responded hi back. Since then, she's called me every other day 1-3 tx's a day. On Friday, we talked. She agreed to go out with me to a dinner this coming Friday. She ended the call by saying "I Love You" then..."I guess I'll talk to you towards the end of the week. (She has a crazy week ahead w\college presentation due, school conferences-she's a teacher, etc.. I said I'd prob tlk to her Sunday (Today). Should I call her tonite? Otherwise, I prob won't talk to her till Wednesday or Thursday.
michael d Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 hey. it sounds like she still is into you. and she has a lot on her plate. talk to her, and try to help where you can. figure out if you love HER and act accordingly. yes call her. call her when you want to and tell her you just wanted to call to hear her voice. you both need to COMMUNICATE what you want and the rest will follow. go for it man. this seems like it is yours for the taking. but do you want it??? okay then michael d
Ocean-Blue Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 Seems like she's trying sort out everything. Her calling, texting and wanting to see you all indicate that she's still interested in being with you. She is probably confused about everything. When she asked for a break, you responded with a break up. Perhaps that scared her (because she has always been the indecisive one). But at some point, you will need to ask her to decide what she wants once and for all.
ImaManDammit Posted November 16, 2007 Posted November 16, 2007 I don't want to be a fly in the ointment, but tread carefully. My last ex did the same thing. I broke it off , and a short time later came back. and told me she loved me yadda yadda yadda. Well two months later, its over and for good now, but boy what a mess it was to get to that point. Not to say that yours will work out that way, but I would tread carefully. Hope this helps.
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