chris_00 Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 Slight Introduction: Ok so first of I have t admit I'm competely clueless when it comes to women and relationships. I'm 22 and haven't been in a meaningful relationship or had any girlfriends. So you know where I'm coming from. Question: I'm currently in college and met a girl when I was trying to put together a club. We have been working together for the past month off and on, and have begun "hanging out" more recently. We've hung out a few time, see each other at school often and IM each about everyday. I personally like her but haven't made any advances because I'm affraid of losing her as a friend. Anyway, the other night we hung out and watched movies together and I noticed that though she has a larger couch she sat right up next to me and we kind of snuggled together through 2 movies. Personnaly I'm not the affectionate type and this would not be something I would normally be comfortable with, except it was with her. In short I'm trying to figure out if she likes me or if this is just normal femal behavor. Thanks for your help!
sumdude Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 There's only one way to find out. Kiss her... if she doesn't let it happen you can both decide to 'just be freinds'.
Phateless Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 Slight Introduction: Ok so first of I have t admit I'm competely clueless when it comes to women and relationships. I'm 22 and haven't been in a meaningful relationship or had any girlfriends. So you know where I'm coming from. Question: I'm currently in college and met a girl when I was trying to put together a club. We have been working together for the past month off and on, and have begun "hanging out" more recently. We've hung out a few time, see each other at school often and IM each about everyday. I personally like her but haven't made any advances because I'm affraid of losing her as a friend. Anyway, the other night we hung out and watched movies together and I noticed that though she has a larger couch she sat right up next to me and we kind of snuggled together through 2 movies. Personnaly I'm not the affectionate type and this would not be something I would normally be comfortable with, except it was with her. In short I'm trying to figure out if she likes me or if this is just normal femal behavor. Thanks for your help! You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. The worst thing that could possibly happen is you chicken out and never know what could have been because you never made a move and got friend-zoned. If you try to kiss her and it goes awry, you'll get over the rejection and go back to being friends. If you never try, you'll be stuck with a crush on a friend for quite a long time. Trust me, it's far better to kiss her and find out for sure. It sounds like she likes you. Women give away a lot more than they mean to with body language, posture, and unconscious primping for you. Keep doing whatever it is that you're doing, and don't be afraid to go in the for the kiss in the middle of a movie next time.
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