in love and confused Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 my best friend is married to my mans best friend. my bf's husband told her that my bf woke up next to some girl and thought it was me, this was about a yr ago. I nagged him about for a while finally one day he spilled the beans said she gave him a ride home thats all ddin't do anything, believe it or not i believe him(whiskey dick!!!) however i've met the girl before once( he's known her for sometime use to party with her.) whatever the case maybe I'd like to get her side of the story if you know what i mean. cuz he's changed his story a few times about who's house they went to and won't talk to me about it. then said she didn't spend the night but someone had to take him to his car about 30 miles away first thing in the morning. tell me do i have the right to talk with her about it. he and are have been living together for 2 years now he moved in with me at the time his house was for sell and we were taking turns staying with eachother. we also have a son together.
Lyssa Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 This is a s***ty situation. You can ask the girl about it but how would you know she's telling you the truth if you did talk to her? What do you expect to hear from her? What are you going to do if it's bad news?
Author in love and confused Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 at least i'd know that i'm with a cheater! and how to handle the situation more. i was married for 10 years to only find out the last couple years we were together that he had cheated a million times, i never know ( he was in the military reserves). I wish i would have known sooner!! bad or good thats the kind of person i am. only to find out later his friends knew didn't agree but didn't want to get involved, i understood.
Author in love and confused Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 one more thing this is the same guy from dating for 3 years. it would make me understand why he's been so different the last year or so. guilt does that to a person.
Lyssa Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 Then talk to her and get your confusion over and done with. I'm like you. If the truth hurts, it does not matter as long as I know what to do next. I don't mind leaving the guy I love if he's cheating on me.
kypepeo Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 confronting her is going to create a situation coz she's going to tell him about it and he may start going on about how you don't trust him. I definitely think that you need to get to the bottom of this for your peace of mind
Author in love and confused Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 I am not friends with her but I do know her ex boyfriend, I can always talk to him about my bf doesn't hang out where she does anymore and her ex can't stand my bf
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