EYECANDY000 Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 Been dating this guy for the last couple of months now and everything is going good. If some of you have follwed my threads then, I am speaking of the same guy. Now, The situation is this: we usually spend time at his house. Now i dont spend time at his home when hes not there. so basicly everytime I visting he is always present. Today he texted me and asked if I seen his sisters watch? and I responded , No, sorry. So I asked him questions like where was the last place he seen it, and when did he see it last? Now I would never steal anything from anyone and I definately wouldnt want him to think that I am taking things from him. and definately wouldnt want his sister to think that I am a thief. Do you guys think he was just simply asking me, or blaming me? how would you feel about the situation? as you can tell I am very hurt because I wouldnt want his sister who I have never met to already have negative thoughts about me. and I wouldnt him as well. As I have stated in other threads this is a really new relationship feedback pleeease!!!!
melodymatters Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 In this case you simply have NO idea what he might have meant. it could be as simple as stated, OR he could ( or his sister who never met you could) be having suspicions. Personally, I would not mention or think of it again UNLESS he asked me about it again. Then I would say something like " I've never even seen her watch and this is the second time you are asking me, I certainly hope you are not implying anything here ?!? " good luck !
Mezzi Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 I think it may very well be a mix of him just wondering if you happened to glimpse it while you were over there and possibly wondering if you took it. Good luck, hopefully the watch is found and it doesnt mean a thing.
LovesDog Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 i think he was just asking you if you saw it. i don't think he was insinuating anything else. in my experience, men aren't usually beat-around-the-bush about stuff. hopefully no interpretation is necessary. she just lost it.
Lyssa Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 I wouldn't think too much about this. He's probably just asking if you saw it around when you were hanging out at his place.
compassion42 Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 I agree, he was just asking....no need to worry about him thinking you took it-I'm sure he knows that you are not a thief.
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