lovesparis Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 it's been 3 months since he broke up with me. i still miss him. i'm still NC with him b/c no matter howmuch i want him back, and believe we'll get back together, the time just isn't right yet. i've written countless letters to him, that i've never sent. i'm just waiting for my loose ends to be totally wrapped up, so i can move on with things. it's hell without him.
Rowen Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Hang in there! I hope my ex and I will get back together sometime, but ive started to slowly stop the panicky feeling I get. I know she's really busy with exams and stressed right now so i leave her be. She contacts me once a week to say hi, etc for about 5 minutes. And right now i've slowly started to accept that if we're just friends that's fine for me. My hopes are still high but my expectations are lower. hey at least she's the one that keeps breaking NC.. every 8 days or so. I think she's worried becuase she always questions if im not excited to talk to her. I hope you can get to the point where you can feel a bit more comforted, and I hope you can get into some light contact. NC is a good way of going, but it all depends on the situation and the person you know, the person you spent all your time with and their personality etc. Does he have a bday coming up or anything? After two weeks of NC I called my ex on her bday and she called me back 2 times saying thank you over and seemed very happy. That seemed to have turned the tide to positive talking with us. For me it's been just less than two months since our breakup.
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