minerva63 Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 I feel the grip losening....... Mind you, I still think about him everyday, cry nearly everyday and blah, blah, blah. But it just feels different now. In a good way. A long way to go but at least I've gotten started.
pinktiger Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Congrats! I am happy for you. I could not stick to NC because I don't know how. I am afraid that he will not come back at all if I go NC. I love him so much i can not let it go
ahah2322 Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 hey minerva! i am so happy for you. i know how it feels. day by day, it gets better and you feel increasingly independent. embrace your singlehood and don't let the occassional/frequent (depending on your progress) 'bad days' or 'dark hours' get you if you don't want to spiral back into the dark ages! be positive and live it babygirl!
wowIlose Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Good work, I am 2 weeks NC as well.. Can't say I am feeling wonderful but at least I am getting there ( i hope lol)
ninjaturtles Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Welldone, it does get better.....gradually you start to feel happy more often than not...im 7 weeks NC and iv i feel good. Sometimes sadness creeps in, but i brush it off. keep yourself busy, stay occupied and more NC--->healing.xx
sedgwick Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 I feel exactly the same. It's 9 weeks for me. This week has been really hard, but I've resisted calling him. Every day I have to tell myself this is the right thing to do, but it feels good to do it. If he wants to talk to me again, he'll have to do some work to find me; his numbers and emails and myspace are staying blocked.
Author minerva63 Posted November 10, 2007 Author Posted November 10, 2007 Thank you all for the support I'll probably need it in the future.
adam11 Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 I feel the grip losening....... Mind you, I still think about him everyday, cry nearly everyday and blah, blah, blah. But it just feels different now. In a good way. A long way to go but at least I've gotten started. CONGRATS!! Yeah, me 2. like u said, i have a long way to go aswell, when I'm very busy she is completly pushed out of my mind. Keep yourslef occupied, it works so well!! AD XX
Author minerva63 Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 Thanks adam. I read somewhere that it takes 6 weeks to make or break a habit. Let's see if we can make it!
Author minerva63 Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 Pink, What helps me get though is knowing that contacting him achieves nothing positive. It can't bring him back and it can't make me feel better. In fact, it often made me feel worse. After I started NC I often felt worse than before, but in the long run, I know it's better for me. And for you.
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