grant4658 Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Here's the deal. I just moved in with my friend of 7 years. (Dated when we first met) She just got out of a 2 year relationship with another friend of mine. One day I get a call from her asking if I was looking for a roommate. Since my lease was up I said yes. A few weeks before we moved in she showed interest in me. We would go on dates. Neither of us called them dates of course, but thats what they were. She would get all dressed up and try to look her best, and I would do the same. You don't do this when you're just going out to a movie or dinner with a friend...would you? We were spending alot of time together. Almost every day of the week. We would flirt and hold eachother and what not, but I didn't make a move. Mainly out of respect for her ex (my friend). Also I don't enjoy being the rebound guy! Well recently she has been hooking up with this long haired hippy alcoholic type. I can't understand her taste in men... This guy is so rediculous. You would laugh if you got the chance to meet him. Back to the point.... I told her how I feel about her, and I don't think she really understood what I was trying to say. I guess in my mind this was going to solve the whole hippy problem and things would be just peachy...yet here I am on this forum. I want a more intimate relationship with this girl so bad it hurts. I've always, though not outwardly, been in love with her. Well now here I am, stuck living with her and feeling this way. I'm wondering if I missed the oppertunity to move forward with her, or if there is still a chance? When she's on the phone with this other guy she talks to him like she used to talk to me. You know that whole soft, higher pitched voice thing. It's driving me crazy. It probably doesn't help that I've been depressed lately. Anyways.... I need some feedback. Ladies; I would especially appreciate your imput on the situation seeing as how my problem has alot to do with what she's thinking right now.
WaterTiger Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 ...But I didn't make a move.....I want a more intimate relationship with this girl so bad it hurts...But I didn't make a move..... SO MAKE A MOVE ALREADY!!!!!!!!! What are you waiting for??? She thinks you aren't interested! It's only a myth that women can read minds! Remember: Faint hearts never won fair ladies!
touchedbyfire Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 SO MAKE A MOVE ALREADY!!!!!!!!! What are you waiting for??? She thinks you aren't interested! It's only a myth that women can read minds! Remember: Faint hearts never won fair ladies! Yeah, I think you need to get this out in the open. But be prepared that you might have to move out if you guess wrong. But life is short, and it sucks being in the dark wondering, "What if?". It's easier to survive heartbreak than regret.
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