littleofal Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 this is the be all and end all? i need advice i found what looked to be like semen all over my wifes scarf when confronted she said it was ornage juice and put it in the washing machine what do you guys think- does anything else look like that? i am sure orange does not side note- would you wear it after- surely not?! plse be totally honest cos my marriage is at stake ty
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 well a ultraviolet light should tell, take it down the sunbed shop??
cj1988 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Ok, be calm....I found semen on my husband shirt and it was his....he said he was lookibg at a tape of us and was you know what in his truck....now do I belive him or not? No, not really, cant find the tape anywhere with the others....next, did you smell it?
Author littleofal Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 well my shirt would be fine- cos it would be mine i have not spurted on her scarf so someone else has no smell- but it had crystalised and dried in
cj1988 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Ok, she may be right....get some orange juice, find the scarf and do a test and see yourself......cant hurt.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 I went back and read your other thread. I feel bad for you. You already have some problems, and she is using them as a way to gaslight you and get away with having an affair. I'm not certain what you can do at this point. She has everyone around you convinced that you are paranoid to the point of needing mental health intervention, and uses that to her full advantage.
Author littleofal Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 thanks that is helpful comment yes- i do have problems yes she may be using them against me and yes- that would make her the most evil person on the planet but i dont want to believe it yet?!
Author littleofal Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 if anyone else cares plse read my other thread- my wife > \/ btw- someone said orange juice does not dry in hard i am not convinced orange juice would dry in at all and would be really sticky and messy also if it was in a bag with the juice it would be soaked thro in places or all wet this lloks like a spatter and a drip with a large splat area then drips down until the wee tassles at end are stuck together a bit? help?
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 11, 2007 Posted November 11, 2007 Your wife is cheating on you, and you are looking for someone to tell you that she isn't so that you can convince yourself that she isn't. I hope that you can come to the realization that she is, and find a way out of this. I don't see any hope of reconciliation in this. Is that how you want to spend the rest of your life? With someone who will continue to cheat on you until she is physically unable to? I don't see this situation as being fixed by anything short of a divorce. You say that you can't since you are Catholic, but surely there is a way to annul the marriage due to her infidelity?
Author littleofal Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 is it really that obvious i cant take it if it is
Author littleofal Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 no one in my family believes me i have no concrete evidence other than feelings the drs say no we have a six year old son why do it to me AND HIM! my friends dont believe it her family wont fess up THEY HAVE ALL PUT ME THRO HELL i could not do this to anyone and surely my wife of all that time could not if she really cared SURELY SHE WOULD TELL ME- THERFORE AM I NOT PARANOID?!
Author littleofal Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 I AM NOT CATHOLIC- SHE IS and so is her whole family ARE THEY PROTECTING HER TOO IS THERE ANY HOPE FOR LIFE ON EARTH?
MrsHellnoFire Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 if anyone else cares plse read my other thread- my wife > \/ btw- someone said orange juice does not dry in hard i am not convinced orange juice would dry in at all and would be really sticky and messy also if it was in a bag with the juice it would be soaked thro in places or all wet this lloks like a spatter and a drip with a large splat area then drips down until the wee tassles at end are stuck together a bit? help? Do not wash the scarf! Hide it in a very secure place in your home so she cannot find it. Order a "semen test kit" online and do an analysis yourself. GL!
Author littleofal Posted November 18, 2007 Author Posted November 18, 2007 she siad it was ornage juice spilled in her bag then said what do you think it is semen?! thne without further ado put the scarf in the wash in her defence i spotted it on wednesday she wore it again on thursday? surely no one would wear either a stained scarf or an orangey scarf then i pulled her up on thursday?
compassion42 Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 I haven't read your other post that others mentioned but I was wondering if it could possibly be mucus from a sneeze gone wild or something...maybe she was too embarassed to say that? Sorry you are struggling with this.
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