Jane T Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 The guy I like has given off every sign of liking me and caring about me. I've done almost everything concievable to push him away, except that I still invite him places occasionally. (Here's some, but not all or even the least, of the crap I've pulled: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t135188/ .) So I shouldn't assume that he doesn't like me because he doesn't call, invite me places, or cancel his plans/do things I ask him along to do that he doesn't like? Is it okay if I just ask him flat out if he likes me the next time he flirts with me?
Timberlane Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Is it okay if I just ask him flat out if he likes me the next time he flirts with me? For piece of mind and to resolve this confusion, I sure would ask him. A friend of mine is getting confused signals from a guy she likes. Mainly it has been the highly sexualized texting and flirting. But the guy still hasn't asked her out. I think it's an ego thing with him. I noticed him say something cheeky to a girl last night. So I think he's just a big flirt. My friend thinks so, too, but I think she should just ask him. My friend just started dating someone right now anyway, so it would hardly sting that much to get rejected.
Author Jane T Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 So it's perfectly all right to say something like "you know, I'm starting to get the idea that you kinda have a thing for me"? Not too forward, especially if I flirt first a little to see if he reacts as usual?
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Is it okay if I just ask him flat out if he likes me the next time he flirts with me? I wouldn't. Once I asked a guy if he liked me ('cause him gave me every impression) and the man said, flatly "NO." I thought okay, that's fine. At the next event that I saw him at, he tried to kiss me on the lips. No doesn't always mean no. I think he meant no at the time but then reconsidered. When he's ready he will pounce, until then: go out, have fun and date others.
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