monika79 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 This really attrractive guy has been a regular customer at my place of work for a while know and he has been talking to me for a few months when he comes in. A month ago or so I waited on him and he asked me when i was leaving and we made conversation...he was going to this event which i inquired about and said i should go...i was going to but couldnt make it. Then the past few times after that he came in with someone else so i coulnt talk to him. Then one day he comes in and i am soo nervous that my hands are shaking so i thought that i made a fool of myself....he said hi sweetheart what is new and i just lost it...got nervous for some reason. The last time he was in he said hey how are you and was nice...i asked him if he was working at this place where i was going to go with some friedns and he said yes and he might stop by....cause he wasnt working that day...and when he drove away he looked atme...an ex coworker of mine said he bumped into him a while ago and he asked about me ...so my question is is he interested in me or just being friendly...i dont want to make a fool of myself...thanks
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Who cares if you make a fool of yourself? You obviously like him, so it's worth the risk to find out. Ask him out... chances are he likes you. I don't act that way around girls I'm hoping don't like me... I act that way around girls I like spending time with, even if it's only friends. Invite him to come out with your friends one night, or suggest you guys meet up.
compassion42 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 I think he is interested for sure. The fact that he asked your friend about you says a lot. It is probably hard for him to tell if you are just being courteous for work or if you are actually interested in him as well. Continue to be friendly when you see him and try not to be too nervous.
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