Crono69 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Or does she just not wanna talk to me anymore. Theres this girl I been seeing she has a BF. I have taken her back to my house and we have done "stuff". She would talk to me and message me everyday asking how I was and stuff and usually get mad if I dont message her that day or something. Well all of a sudden she just stopped messaging me. I have been the one to message her the last few days and she has not returned any of them. I have not done anything to her to make her just ignore me like this. It came out of nowhere. Maybe if I wasnt messaging her enough she would do that but I dont understand me messaging her and her not responding to them. So does she seriously think Im not worth her time anymore or is she testing me.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Its not that you aren't worth the time, it could just be that she felt the risk started outweighing the benefits. Her boyfriend may have gotten suspicious, or she just plain felt guilty and stopped things.
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Or does she just not wanna talk to me anymore. Theres this girl I been seeing she has a BF. I have taken her back to my house and we have done "stuff". She would talk to me and message me everyday asking how I was and stuff and usually get mad if I dont message her that day or something. Well all of a sudden she just stopped messaging me. I have been the one to message her the last few days and she has not returned any of them. I have not done anything to her to make her just ignore me like this. It came out of nowhere. Maybe if I wasnt messaging her enough she would do that but I dont understand me messaging her and her not responding to them. So does she seriously think Im not worth her time anymore or is she testing me. YOU, my good sir, are getting attached... to a girl who's cheating on her boyfriend with you. Forget about her right now and forever. Even if she leaves him for you, she is going to eat you alive and throw you away. Trust me... You need to find a nice single girl and forget about this cheater. edit - i hate being right all the time, but when it happens, we're here for you.
Author Crono69 Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 honestly I guess I am attached. Shes not just some girl I met that had a BF and she started cheating. Ive known her for about a year and we would hang out with our friends and stuff. Then she told me she liked me for a while. but thanks for the concern To lucrezia she has told me about a month ago her BF was on to us reading our texts and stuff but that never seemed to bother her. She kept texting me anyways. I dunno why she would wanna throw away our friendship by telling me she likes me then throw away a relationship we could have by ignoring me. Cause honestly I thought nothing of her then just a friend before all this. She could have just left it a secret that she liked me and we would have all been better off. I mean she cant just like me then in a second she doesnt anymore. Why wouldnt she just tell me she cant see me anymore why would she just flatout ignore me?
Lyssa Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Her BF probably have had enough your exchanging test messages with his BF so had a talk with her. He probably gave her an ultimatum. You never know. If I really cared for my friend, I would let him know whatever that is going on.
frannie Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 ... she has told me about a month ago her BF was on to us reading our texts and stuff but that never seemed to bother her. She kept texting me anyways. Why wouldnt she just tell me she cant see me anymore why would she just flatout ignore me? Perhaps she was using the texts from you to make her boyfriend jealous. Now he is jealous enough, she doesn't need you. Til the next time. When you'll have to wonder whether you're going to oblige her. Why are you wasting your time and energy like this..?
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 honestly I guess I am attached. Shes not just some girl I met that had a BF and she started cheating. Ive known her for about a year and we would hang out with our friends and stuff. Then she told me she liked me for a while. but thanks for the concern To lucrezia she has told me about a month ago her BF was on to us reading our texts and stuff but that never seemed to bother her. She kept texting me anyways. I dunno why she would wanna throw away our friendship by telling me she likes me then throw away a relationship we could have by ignoring me. Cause honestly I thought nothing of her then just a friend before all this. She could have just left it a secret that she liked me and we would have all been better off. I mean she cant just like me then in a second she doesnt anymore. Why wouldnt she just tell me she cant see me anymore why would she just flatout ignore me? Unfortunately, you can't apply reason to her behavior, because if she was operating on reason and fairness, SHE WOULD NEVER HAVE TOLD YOU SHE LIKED YOU. People who cheat have something wrong with them in the first place... would you do that to someone you care about?? You're gonna do what you're gonna do and I respect your need to figure this one out for yourself. The best thing to do is drop off the face of the planet and if she asks why you haven't been contacting her just say you got busy. If she mentions that you haven't hung out in a while, act like you hadn't noticed. Behave as if she is just some girl or just a friend to you. You may end up getting her undivided attention at some point, or who knows, maybe she'll leave her bf for you. Even if this does happen, she'll do the same thing to you eventually. In all likelihood, she's gonna ignore you for quite some time and it may take a bit for the friendship to go back to normal. If you really want to get her panties in a twist, bring another girl around when all your friends hang out together.
Gwyneth Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. Perhaps she's sick or something happened to her? I would think not every person would just Walk away without an explanation of some sort. Wait a few more days and see if you hear from her. If I were you, I would show up in a public place she normally is. I had to do that once because I wasn't hearing from someone. I did and they really liked that I was there and "surprised" them. So go for it. Let's just hope she's okay Even though she is in a R with another man, and this is a "thing," she still owes you some sort of explanation, as she's toying with your heart. That's not cool. If you really want to get her panties in a twist, bring another girl around when all your friends hang out together. Um, no, please don't. That's really immature and stupid. Just be you and don't add fuel to the fire.
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