Phoenix11 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 We are on a so-called "Break", but he is still on my IM buddy list. I can see when he's on and it's driving me nuts. Idle - I'm thinking why are you not IMing me. Not Idle - He is chatting with someone other than me. Not signed on - What is he doing and with who Steped Out - Why put that on at all. Who is he really trying to communicate with...because it's not me.\ I don't want to remove him from my list, because I am hopeful that he will chat with me again one day. But until then, what should I do? I going crazy checking when he is available online....
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 We are on a so-called "Break", but he is still on my IM buddy list. I can see when he's on and it's driving me nuts. Idle - I'm thinking why are you not IMing me. Not Idle - He is chatting with someone other than me. Not signed on - What is he doing and with who Steped Out - Why put that on at all. Who is he really trying to communicate with...because it's not me.\ I don't want to remove him from my list, because I am hopeful that he will chat with me again one day. But until then, what should I do? I going crazy checking when he is available online.... lol sweetie you sound like me! remove him from your buddy list until you can learn to just relax! i used to do the same thing... fact is, it's NOT all about you. if you're not planning on IMing him... let it drop.
isntitironic Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 remove him if you can't deal right now. Everyday I want to look at my exes facebook psage but i don't. And I think this drives her nuts lol
brothermartin Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Regardless of why you guys are on a break, you're just looking for reasons to drive yourself crazy. Stop looking. I went through the same thing with my ex on MySpace. She canceled her's, then went spying onto mine. The resulting nasty email I got from her altered my level of respect for her, and for herself. Dont go that route, STOP LOOKING!
Author Phoenix11 Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 I can't stop looking. If I sign on to IM my friends or co-workers, I can't help but notice his status....he's on my list. If I delet him, he will get a message stating that I removed him from my list. Can't have that happen....it would send him the wrong message. I do I do want to talk to him, but can't handle it when I know he is talking to someone else.
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