katie82 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 hey everyone- i was wondering if anyones felt what i'm feeling right now. ive been dating this guy for 1 year now. things have gone really smoothly, we barely ever fight, he's so laid back, he treats me wonderfully and we mesh really well. i am glad that we dont fight, because in my previous relationship we fought alot and it was really bad for me. the thought ive been struggling with lately is that its too easy. its like, i feel like im starting to take him for granted. sometimes i feel like our relationship lacks "excitement" because we are so boring. maybe he's a bit of a pushover. i feel like he would never say no to me no matter what. he never gets mad at me. in a weird way, it makes me feel like something must be wrong and i'm just not realizing it??? i know, i am not appreciating a good thing. someone please talk some sense into me!
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Do some fun/exciting/advernturous stuff together. I understand what you're saying. One of my best friends told me his honest opinion why my ex and I always fought was "it's something to do" and I had no idea how right he was until later on. Fact is, you're already feeling what you're feeling, and convincing yourself otherwise/pushing it down now will only make it come back stronger later. You have to address the root of the problem. Despite the fact that he's great, maybe you're just plain bored. That's why I never made my current fwb my GF. I dated her casually for about 3 months and I just plain got bored. It sucks, but it's valid.
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